I did not believe at first but it happened to me
February 10, 2011 10:00pm CST
I did not believe at love at first sight. And I would not categorize the current state that I'm in as one. But it seems that I did with my current flame. She is very attractive but as I got to know her she is a very wonderful person who only wants what is best for her family. I have to admit at first I did not think I love her but now I'm so in love with her. Have you experienced this please share your thoughts
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11 Feb 11
I had something similiar happen to me. My bf and I have been together for a little over 5 years now. And when I first saw him back when I was still in grade school.. it wasn't love at first sight per say but I had the biggest crush on him. Something about him drew me to him and he told me he felt a similiar pull to me. So we were naturally drawn to each other and still are today. Its like were magnets or something.
11 Feb 11
It seems to me, that you find her because it's what you are looking for a girl. If this is your first love, then, love her truly until the end, not just because she's the one that you looked first. There are still many girls around, maybe. you'll attracted someday, and then you can say, ohhhh, it's not true, this first love. Well, study it first, and observe your relationship with her. If what you feel for this girl is too much, then go for it.
11 Feb 11
Hmmmm! Hi there zenki! I have to say sorry if I will contradict your statement. You have to qualify it because I see a contradiction to your story. You seem to categorize your present flame to be an example of love at first sight, but not sure with it, then you said it seems you are. In other words, you can only say that you are only in love, yet not in love at first sight. Can you see the difference? Well, I am not saying that love at first sight is not possible, but as for my opinion, I do not believe it because it did not happen to me. Maybe to some people happens, but I can say it din't happen to you either. I have to say so because you mentioned that the girl is very attractive. Hence, you saw the physical feature of the girl first and not the internal feature. Of course, that is attraction at first sight and not love, right? You can only say that you are already in love as you get to know her better as again you mentioned. That experience of yours is a common thing. It happens to everyone. Good Luck and keep the loving experience my friend.