Why are men such Buttheads???????????????

Canada
February 15, 2011 9:41pm CST
K I have been with my man for almost 2 years and he is just pissing me off. I need to vent and make a discussion out of it at the same time. Now I am a SAHM of 3 wonderful kids. So I am here 24/7 cooking, cleaning, and taking care of the kidlets. I love my kids and would do almost anything for them but when is it my turn to get a night out? My man goes out every 2-3 days. goes to his guy friends places til 2am usually, then he comes home and plays video games til 4 or 5 am. In the morning he is so tired that he sleeps til between 12 and 1. So there is no time for us and there is no time for him to spend with the kids. He works nights usually 5-10pm so when he gets up so late in the day we barely see him before he's gone again. I have tried talking to him over and over again about how I am feeling about this and it just doesn't seem to sink in with him. He has no clue what it means to be a father and I am to the point where I don't NEED him around and if he can't shape up then he needs to ship the heck out. I am too sick of it. So my question now is. What would you do if your man was like this??????