Between sad and happy

@gengeni (3308)
Indonesia
February 19, 2011 7:58pm CST
Why when we are angry, depressed, and sad, could be so many words, curses, which smoothly out of our mouths? But when we're happy, no words we can express.
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8 responses
• Indonesia
23 Feb 11
Those are the feelings of the brain in response to the situation that is happening when we are angry, annoyed, sad, we tried to vent all of it for all it could be passed and not overburdened with brains for everything that is happening. Unlike happy ..... Happiness is a satisfied feeling free and happy with what happened.
@sais06 (1284)
• Philippines
20 Feb 11
Hi gengeni! When we are happy we usually do not say a lot of words but rather show it. It's the best way for us to express our happiness and others won't see how happy we are by just saying words. But when we are sad or angry we look for something where we could release all negative feelings that is in our heart. Maybe wanted to punch somebody or destroy something but we often choose not be physical but rather just let it out through words.
@adnileb (5256)
• Philippines
20 Feb 11
That was a difficult question gengeni. =) My boyfriend actually complains when I get mad for example when he's not cleaning the room. And he will say, "when I'm cleaning the room, you don't say anything. But when I'm not, you get mad"... hahaha! I just don't know what to say to him. There's a saying that "Don't make decisions when you're angry. Don't make promises when you're happy"...
• United States
20 Feb 11
interesting question... that i don't really have an answer for. just more proof! I know when I am angry and depressed I can write much more (and better) poetry than when I'm happy. I guess we want to sit back and enjoy the happy moments and not waste the moment by trying to describe it. Maybe trying to describe and talk about the bad moments make them seem like they're moving faster and will be over sooner.
@Ichiru101 (284)
• United States
20 Feb 11
It is true, I really can not think of a word to express it. I suppose when it comes to happiness we show it physically like with a smile.
• United States
20 Feb 11
I have no idea. I guess that when we are angry, we feel more of a need to express ourselves, as if nobody knows how we feel. I know that when I get angry or frustrated that I sometimes try to show it, even though I am not very proud of that... it makes me feel too emotional.
• India
20 Feb 11
Wow .. What a question .. I should really appreciate you for asking such a question. I am thinking so hard , but i still cannot find any reason or answer for this. It is may be because we keep on thinking of the reason for our sadness and so , so many curses come out of our mouths. But in case of happiness, we just forget the reason why we are happy and we don't keep on thinking about it all the time when we are happy. This could be the reason .
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 11
Among the sad and happy, two sentences are very contradictory but mutually decorate, there are people who upset her in happy and some are happy to sad within her,,, the sorrow that can come anytime so happy he came with did not care about time him. in human life are two sentences that do come and go, but it also depends on us who live this life will not,,,,, sadness which enveloped us when we can accept all things that we feel at that time even though it was very painful, , if we are able to receive all heartened that the burden then will we live a life very enjoyable,,,, and will make us always bahagia.dak dare to face the fact that we are angry?