How to enjoy life, so we do not feel what we've done for others is not in vain?

@rifnee (1713)
Indonesia
February 20, 2011 4:43am CST
I've helped someone to solve the problem, by chance he is a person who is very close to me, I felt it helped him with all my ability but still the problem is not finished. And now he's even thinking if I do not ever try to help him, now he's away from me. I'm sad really, I think my sacrifice not considered at all, How can she not angry with me, while I do not want to lose a friend.
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4 responses
@najibdina29 (1309)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 11
problem of happiness can not be measured with the material,. even those who looked his shortcomings,but he can enjoy his happiness.
@globaldoc (860)
• Philippines
21 Feb 11
If there is something that i have learned in life, it is NEVER TO HELP SOMEONE EXCESSIVELY. Just like you, it has happened to me several times. I have helped someone, and because of his problems, i got attacked. He just simply watched, and was even the one who started out things that initiated that attack. Later after being attacked, he approached me and asked for my help and support again. Imagine the nerve.
@joygracia (1328)
• Philippines
20 Feb 11
I think you have done your best and your friend does appreciate that so dont worry. Your friend problem will soon be solve.
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 11
I have a recipe for you: 1. Do not ever regret ever helping your friends 2. Never install disappointed face in front of your friends 3. Keep smiling when you meet your best friend 4. Do not bob up and down past problems anywhere, anytime 5. Do not ever think about the problem your friend unless you are asked for advice or counsel 6. Do not forget your friends that are sick (mind), so do not discredit him and most importantly the ... 7. Do not let yourself be trapped in such problems experienced by your friends Remember this recipe can not be redeemed at pharmacies, and remember keep your friendship, and hence of the friendship was not broken, because one day your friend will also do the same thing if you're experiencing the same thing. Friend is more precious than jewels.