Couples as friends on facebook?

United States
February 20, 2011 9:27am CST
Do you think that its okay for your significant other to tell you that they don't want to be friends with you on social websites like facebook?
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5 responses
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
21 Feb 11
LOL, it is funny. Of course, the members of facebook we can call them as friends only. We will give suggestions to the facebook admin to prepare some other gadgets like this. hahaha, i am kidding. have a nice day. God bless you.
@hexebella (1136)
• Philippines
20 Feb 11
One of my friends, he doesn't want to add his wife in his Friendster account because he said that his wife will question him about the ladies who are connected to him and he will be interrogated. He even asked me not to add his wife in my account but his request was already late as I had given my email address to his wife prior to his request. In my own opinion, he has a point because his wife gets jealous with every female connected to him even it is only platonic relationship and it results to argument and quarrels. In my own experience, my boyfriend is connected with me in my FB account and every time I connect with a male, he always ask me who is that person and there is unhappiness and insecurity in his tone of voice. When I am posting a shoutout at times that I want to express my feelings on something, he will ask me for whom is that and on what issue. On this case he will spark my anger as I don't want to be questioned on what I do or post on my own page as it belongs to me only and no one has the right to do so. If my boyfriend will tell me not to be connected with him, I won't mind at all as I don't even snoop on his page and I will expect him to give me freedom as well with my social network community.
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
20 Feb 11
For what reason that he has to bar me from being friends? I mean, why he has to do that? For me not to be able to check what could have been doing over his Facebook? That is truly ridiculous and suspicious. I have been to that situation and I hate it. My instincts were right. My bf then and I are not friends in Facebook and that was his idea. I did not react at first and asked him why. I just observed his activities there and yes, there were things very suspicious.
• United States
20 Feb 11
If your significant other didnt want to be your friend on a social networking site then they are keeping a secret from you or something that they dont want you to see. I wouldnt accept it at all and if they werent going to be my friend then i would have to say to there face that they are hiding something and if they deny it then you say add me or its over. I wouldnt put up withthe little games in life and i wont and thats just easy and done. I would think they are playing games and wanting to go behind your back and do something they shouldnt be doing in life without you knowing. Keeping secrets is just not allowed in life.
• Philippines
20 Feb 11
of course not! i would immediately think that his reason could be that she doesn't want to let guys know that she's not single anymore! or that she's ashamed of informing people that i'm his guy... something like that. what else could be her reason for such thing, right?