How do I become a good girlfriend?

@gengeni (3308)
Indonesia
February 20, 2011 11:49pm CST
How do I become a loyal girl, caring, and understanding when my boyfriend is busy? In order for him to feel happy.
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11 responses
• India
21 Feb 11
You can follow the following Do's and Dont's to achieve your objective: Do not intrude while he was talking angrily. Think and understand what is he actually coming to say, very patiently. Apologize if u have to. Excuse him gladly if the mistake is his. Never lie him. Give him time to come back to his normality when he is busy.
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@ada8may21 (2419)
• Philippines
21 Feb 11
If your boyfriend is busy and have no time for you then find time for him. You know exactly what to do show him the love even if there is no time. Like sending some notes and letters for him or maybe a bit of sweetness.
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@nakula2009 (2325)
• Indonesia
25 Feb 11
hmm .. difficult .. Everything could change, we will not know what will happen tomorrow. we can do is optimistic. tries. and be the best. I had the same experience. I've tried to make him as the last port. but she is now going to leave me. so we can only try. but who decide not us. let it flow. allow time to answer. The most Important is keep your best!
@fjclolazy (859)
• China
21 Feb 11
hi,my friend! u can do cooking for him when he is hungry.u can go to a some places where he likes.don't bother him when he is busy.don't complain that he has no time to be with u when he is busy. merrily ours,honey!
@EdnaReyes (2628)
• Philippines
21 Feb 11
I can relate with you,my dear. During our courtship years, my ex-boyfriend (he's now my husband )is busy with his career. We only see each other three times a week, lasting only for a few hours. But I did not nag him about this. I always wait for him to call, to visit and always pleasant whenever he comes to visit. It lasted for almost two years and know what, he had confessed that because of what I had shown him (my being understanding whew)he can't even dare to look for another girl and hasten to marry me before any guy could have the luck of having me as a wife! Sometimes it pays to be pretentious and with a little bit of acting.
@koolit83 (41)
• Philippines
21 Feb 11
..gengeni, to become a good girlfriend you have to understanding especially u said that your boyfriend is busy..most of the time us girls wants so much attention of our partners and demands more time whan what they can give us..we have to learn to understand them in times like that..
• Singapore
21 Feb 11
You can be a good girlfriend by not disturbing your boyfriend when he is busy. Also be a good listener when you meet up with your boyfriend. How about buying or cook your boyfriend's favourite dish?
• India
21 Feb 11
hey gengeni as you said you know your boyfriend is....you may not get many chance to talk to him or sometimes you may not get response at all but still when ever u get to talk to him don't show your frustration of not talking to him all these days.... just try to show your love and affection for him...then you will see that he himself will call you for the care and affection you give him....then naturally you will be happy....then coming to the loyalty part ...being loyal what we chose not told by others..... so wish you all the best and hope you have a happy love life
@prinzcy (5055)
• Malaysia
21 Feb 11
Well, I am not really a relationship guru but I do know that I should be more understanding in a relationship. Since he's busy, it's best not to bother him much. But do send a text message or two for a simple thing like remind him to eat and such. Not more than that or he'll blow up. If he want to talk about his work, then listen even when you don't understand a word about it. Good luck~~~
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
21 Feb 11
The point is to be a good listener, and always there for him, in good or difficult, be the first person who greeted him in the morning, and so the last person who said good night before going to sleep, & try to be a likeable person, not annoying and always there for him, hopefully successfully.
21 Feb 11
The keys to a good relationship are dialogue and understanding. You need to talk to each other about anything that either of you are thinking. You need to give each other space and know when to hold back.