If you divorced your spouse could you......

United States
February 23, 2011 12:24pm CST
If you divorced your spouse,that you were still in love with, could you remain friends and tolerate seeing and being around him/her while they were with another lover? I myself could not. I cannot let myself go there. In my heart it would hurt to much. It would be a constant reminder of the love I lost. How would you handle it? Could you do it?
2 responses
@Rtlsnk316 (1197)
• Mexico
23 Feb 11
It sounds like a contradiction, why would you divorce him/her if you're still in love? Wouldn't you try to do something to avoid it? If that isn't the case then whatever comes up one just has to take it as it is. I been trough that already, it is/was painfull at the beggining but I had to move on, my happiness and well being can't depend from another person. As happy as our days were, that I'll keep forever but the present it's what counts.
• United States
24 Feb 11
No contradiction...Just a question. I am just saying I couldn't do this. I never said it is something I had done. But yes you are right we do move on through and past circumstances in our lives...good & bad ones. Thank you for your comment.
@ifa225 (11099)
• Indonesia
13 Apr 11
Hi silver, i don't think i can. i better to end the relation even i know i can't. it is better to not now how he is doing now or with whom he make a relation. i could get burn if i knew that he dating another person