What do you do when your friend is not answering your calls or replying on text?

@r3jcorp (1382)
Philippines
February 23, 2011 8:30pm CST
I'm very worried, the last time my bestfriend texted me is she is having a marital problem. She told me she will contact me later, she just have to fixed her problem and was asking for more time and space. I texted her father, but he has no idea what's going on...
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9 responses
24 Feb 11
You should try to establish contact with your friend as soon as possible.Do you remember where is she like to go when she is upset? Has she ever told you a place where she very want to go alone?I wish you can contact whit her.
@r3jcorp (1382)
• Philippines
24 Feb 11
The problem is, she is in a different country. Her phone is ringing and I send a message to her husband in case he is the one receiving the messages. But still, there is no reply. I even contact her parents here in the Philippines, they try texting her but still no reply.
24 Feb 11
This is really a problem,I understand what are you afraid of.If you still do not get the response form her somedays later.I think you or her parents could try to contact with the Philippine embassy of the country she went to.I`m not sure that it is a successful to find her.
@Shavkat (137243)
• Philippines
1 Sep 12
I used to send through text messages to my friends. If they don't respond, then I just let go. Maybe they are also busy in their lives.
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
26 Feb 12
Hi r3jcorp, I would be very worried as well in case my friends or loved ones don't reply my calls or texts. I just hope that this is due to their phone has run out of power. Or they are in area out of network coverage. I would try to contact people who are close to them or might be together with them to get their latest whereabout. Anyway I would keep on calling or texting them until getting reply. Happy posting
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
4 Feb 12
Oh my..that would be an instance where I would be in the car going to see. I wouldn't do it after just a couple...but if it were more than a couple of days..I would have to find out what was going on. She might need some time and space but I would be worried she might be in danger. I know it has been a year since you posted it and I'm sure you have found out what was going on by now. I hope she was ok.
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
8 Apr 12
hi there, this happens to me too where my friend and her boyfriend fought and then we kept contacting her to check up on her but she said she will just text us when they are done talking. we were so worried because my other friend told us that her boyfriend hits her. i hope she breaks up with him already. boys who hit their girlfriends don't deserve to be loved.
@shrmanoj (382)
5 Feb 12
Oh, in my opinion the problem is serious and you need to contact as soon as possible. She is in a big problem and dear, why don't you meet her ? Come on hurry up dear....
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
26 Mar 11
Hi. r3corp. I hope that she is okay. Maybe you can leave a message with her father if she does decide to talk to him. I think that she needs some time away. But I think that she still should not shut you out. I hope that whatever is going on, she will get into touch with you and her father very soon.
• India
18 Mar 11
Welcome to mylot, you should stop worrying, she might be having other possible problems like no load in cell phone, or no signal at the place, the battery might have become discharged, just wait..she will be back.. Thanks for sharing Cheers. God bless you, have a nice day ahead. Professor ‘Bhuwan’. .
15 Mar 11
Make sure to establish communication with her. Maybe call a common friend, a family member, her office, her children. We 'll never know what will happen until we find out. Its frustrating and if I were in you're shoes, I wont be able to sleep soundly. Have a good day.