How to know if you're moving to fast in your relationship...
By SockriTease
@SockriTease (10)
February 24, 2011 6:56pm CST
Many people move at different paces with their relationships, I guess it depends on the people. But when do you know when the right time is to take it to the next step? Especially when you've both been married/divorced and statistics show that you have a higher chance of being divorced again compared to a first time married couple. When is it too soon?
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@EstiiBabii (685)
• United States
25 Feb 11
Well, it depends on what your gut is telling you. If you feel something wrong or your partner does then it's a signal telling you that you're moving too fast.
Relationships that move fast tend to end fast too. So, take slow steps before you can finally reach the whole staircase.
Don't worry about these statistics they may be true but don't let that make or break your relationship. Just believe in your heart that everything will be okay and everything will be okay.
@SockriTease (10)
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25 Feb 11
Thanks, you're absolutely right. I think we're both nervous about moving too fast but we talk about marriage alot. And statistics really don't matter because most of my aunts and uncles are happily in their second marriages. Thanks for your insight.
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
Lovers are not aware how fast pace their relationship is cause most are blind to realized it. Coming into the next stage are not planned , it happens spontaneously cause it is dictated by emotions and not by minds. In love,mistakes are always repeatedly done, cause love never learns, nor knows what's right or wrong. Love can make one whole but always leave lovers half and broken!
