I kind like, really like, wanna get married!!!

February 24, 2011 7:22pm CST
So I took a "should I get married quiz", silly I know. But my results indicated that I should search for a wedding planner stat!! :) While I feel strongly about this, I still have my doubts of course. But my boyfriend brings up the idea of marriage more than I do. If he brings up marriage all the time, what does that mean?
9 responses
• United States
25 Feb 11
WOW your lucky your boyfriend brings it up mine doesnt talk about it much at all well actually never and that is hard on me as he is in his thirties and doesnt talk about it and i really want to get married and start a life of our own. I would love for this to happen next year and i would really llike to get engaged soon. You are a lucky girl and i hope you get engaged soon or at least get married this year and i hope all the best of luck to you and your boyfriend.
25 Feb 11
Thanks!!! Sometimes I don't know how to take it because most men have marriage as the furthest thing from their minds. It's like he thinks about it more than I do. However, he is still very nervous to move too fast, so I think that keeps him from actually going on with it. I guess I'm ready for him to stop thinking about it and talking about it and actually making something come of these conversations that happen so often. Good luck to you and your boyfriend as well. How long have you guys been together?
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
That makes the two of us. Yey! Really would like to get married, that's why we settled on having it next year. If he brings this up tp you that means you are the lucky woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with... Try to evaluate yourself if you really want to be with him for the rest of his life. :)
25 Feb 11
Are you engaged then? CONGRATS!!!!! Yeah, he brings it up all the time and tells me that he's in it for the long haul, but nothing is ever solidified. So, how do I make him put the ring where his mouth is so to speak? lol
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
25 Feb 11
That means he really wants to marry you and you said you really want to get married so why don't you guys just go ahead and get marriedd, get a wedding planner if it is really what you want to do.
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
Then go on, get a wedding planner and start to plan your wedding, i'm sure your boyfriend will like that idea, but be sure to tell him about your plans hehe..
@vasugi (143)
• India
25 Feb 11
It means that you got a great partner who is true and sincere and who wants to love you throughout out your life... Few boys talk about marriage and the one's who start the topic it means he is serious and its time to settle and lead a happy life.. Lucky you my friend :-)
@Jenn11 (1)
• Mexico
25 Feb 11
Same thing happens to me! I spend all night thinking about what goes through my boyfriend's crazy mind. Sometimes he even talks about our babies :). I get so excited, but i do think it is weird because usually, it is the girl who talks about that. Don't know, maybe it means that they really love us and plan to spend the rest of their lives with us!! Lets hope so... :)
• United States
25 Feb 11
Why do you want to get married? Are you wanting it for the right reasons, or are you wanting it because you feel to need to be married by social standards? How long have you been together? Are you at a feasible stage in your relationship that marriage could be a viable option? How does he bring up marriage? Does he ask if you would want to get married? Does he talk about marriage in the abstract? Does it sound like he is interested in getting married?
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
more than anyone, you are the one who knows what are your real feelings and thoughts about getting married. Anyway, since your boyfriend mentioned it to you most of the time, then I guess he is already contemplating on proposing to you anytime soon. And as of now, the answer relies on you, whether you want to take the plunge and go with the plans..God bless and good luck. =)
@rog0322 (2829)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Feb 11
Hi Sock, Marriage is a lifetime arrangement, at least for us here. Some treat marriage as just a convenient way to get something they want and not what they can to the other party. When the magic runs out, as they always will, the eyes wander to greener pastures and separation sets in. Unless your heart is made of stone, you are bound to feel the hurt, seeing the family fall apart, the innocent trust of your future children shattered with the burden of their unending, unanswered questions... Try to evaluate your plans on the light of this truth and may you find the answers to your doubts.