I Cried .....

That is a happy and sady thing

Are they still a couple?

hello SIMPLYD, I am also a mother and my daughter is already 17 yrs old,so i know one day she will also come and tell that she already has a boyfriend,or might asks my permission to entertain a suitor at home. I've been preparing myself for that. At least we need to create a good relationship between mother-daughter,and be our kids friends and buddy as well.

hello friend! i think that was a sad moment for you.i can understand what you feel that time.it was a good and also bad moment for you.how do you manage all things?what about your daughter now,is she all right now?is she married and have baby now?what happen next?anyway be happy always do not feel upset. thank you so much.

Good to know that your tears must have been tears of joy. It means you should also focus on your own life, and own happiness. Don't be lonely. Do things to make new (good) friends so that as she is happy, I am sure she wants you to be happy too...besides being in here lotting, i mean. All the best.

I guess those are some aspects in life that we simply just can't avoid. I for one experienced that from my parents. But the difference was, I wasn't allowed to have a boyfriend. I can't even let my suitors visit me at home. Yet I also made a choice not to engage in a relationship until I graduate college. I have a mindset that I will find a man who will love me truly by the time that I'm of age. I had my boyfriend when I was 22. My father I think was culture shocked when I introduced him. What was funny is that while we talk he pretends to read a newspaper and was sitting beside me in the couch. He didn't cry, but I saw in his face that he looks angry. :) Now he managed to accept that I reached this stage of my life. He is no longer against our relationship as he saw my boyfriend's sincerity. Happy mylotting! Your daughter is no longer a baby.. :)

Your daughter is already a lady. It is good that your daughter told you the truth. Have a good day.

You cried because of anxiety and nervousness.Many times our preconceived notions about anything/anyone make us very weak from mind and heart. My mother has been ailing for some time and whenever she goes for her routine check ups ,i fear that her reports would not come normal and when she tells me that her reports are normal ,then i cry .I think crying relieves us from tensions and anxieties.It makes us calm and relaxed. I am happy that your girl is going good and has found the love of her life.I wish her all the very best for her future life.

Hi dears, When something happens unexpectedly we will become stupefied and it is natural. I think you must have become alright later on. Always we should think a step ahead. Accept the facts and at most of the time it will be difficult for us when it come directly us. Here in your case also, the same thing is happened. For you, your 18 years daughter is still a young girl and she may be equal to a doll for you. But for her, she is a grown up girl and have the power to take decisions and all. But I don’t understand why she SMS’d you at once and made you surprised. If at all, she got a boy friend or she is an affair with someone, she could tell you whenever she is with you. However, understand yourself that it is difficult for us to accept such things form our loved ones. But as it is life and when we think from their point of view, we feel that are correct. So, be relaxed and I can understand your position as well. Bless them for a better future and advise them properly, that is what we can do for them in the second half of their life. Regards, Thank-s