GUYS-you think you are tough enough?..I promise LOVE can make you cry :p

@jaiho2009 (39001)
Philippines
March 1, 2011 8:17am CST
Last night i was checking my Facebook account and saw my cousin's message. I was alarmed with his message he wrote a sentence this way " ate (sister) please tell my mom how much i loved her " I wonder what's wrong with this young man,i was about to give my response when suddenly the chat pop up (facebook chat) and my cousin asks me to talk with him in yahoo messenger. So,we did chat and i asked him to what happened and also ask him to open his cam as i can sense that he is in trouble. I saw him crying,(ehehe) with matching wipes on his nose (i can't help but smile in his picture,he looks cute that way) Then he say's "why you are laughing huh?...can't you see i am heartbroken ?" Okay,you are heartbroken,but my gosh,don't you ever cry infront of your gf like that or else she will surely laugh at you (my reply) So guys,do you think you are tough enough.? I promised you,you will cry when it comes to loving someone truly. Any same experience?...or just leave your comments then. Have a great day everyone Jai (always in love)(laughs)
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10 responses
• Romania
1 Mar 11
De obicei,cei care iubesc,stau mai tot timpul alaturi.Dar sunt si momente cand intervine despartirea temporara.Atunci trebuie sa fim tari,cu toate ca ne este greu.Si atunci dragostea este mai mare.
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@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
1 Mar 11
hello viorel, Please write in English only and kindly read the guidelines. Welcome to mylot and enjoy this site Have a great day
@Jotomy (6351)
• India
1 Mar 11
Hi welcome to mylot, by the way which language is this? Is it French?
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@Jotomy (6351)
• India
1 Mar 11
@ Jai, i like to know the different languages but very hard to learn is it? Happy to read the other languages but the sad thing is i don't know it. I feel if it is translated word to word then nice.
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@thesids (22357)
• Bhubaneswar, India
2 Mar 11
Hi jaiho I am not that tough a guy and even never thought that my girlfriend would laugh when I cried... I would have felt bad if I was heart broken but that wouldnt have stopped me from loving her.. that is for sure. I believe that love has no expectations and I never started loving her keeping an eye on we would be together. We both are from different places, castes, and even mother tongues. The chances of No were always too high but still I loved her... and even today (after being married for 4 years) I feel we got married just the last day
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
hello dear thesids Love moves in mysterious ways. We will never understand the true meaning of it ,until the day we found someone. It's like our/your life has just begun when you found that someone. I admire men who cried in the name of love (i find it cute ) it would surely swept me off.
@Jotomy (6351)
• India
3 Mar 11
Hi anna, yes there will not be any exceptions if you love a person truly but we expect their happiness.
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@chuyins123 (2118)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
Being tough isn't limited to emotions and not even confined on "whether you cry or not" anyway, no one is tough enough not to cry. Our design includes the feature of crying, no exemption. Either man or woman, you are capable to cry. So it's no issue for me. If I love someone who made me cry, it's no problem, it doesn't take a bit of being a man. I even believe that it's manly enough to cry for the one you truly love. Thanks for the post! Reminds me of Love. :) God bless you! Have a happy life! :)
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
hello chuyins, Of course,it won't make any difference of being a man when you cry becoz of love. and i admire men who cries becoz of love they looks cute huh. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and i am happy to know that few men admits of crying when it comes to loving someone truly Have a great day always
@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
Hello my bonita mia...the problem with you is you never understood his situation though you had been there, got immune d,numbed from the experience your cousin had. Now you're laughing because you passed already what he had right now... Okay..first a crying-gentleman is not a basis a man considered a weak one. Am talking here of a man,a gentleman because most likely ladies are always prone to crying . I myself cried once because of love and of course you right? Some expert advised: If you are broken-hearted let those feeling be out, the best thing for you to do is cry it out the whole morning and when you wake up it's all gone..i think it's right..i've done it already..have you done it already my bonita mia? Miss you... Mobhomeir here..
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@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
hello Martin, Oh yeah,i've done it my dear crying my heart out. So,my tears dried,and can't cry anymore (uhmnn) I admire men who cries for love and for me it looks cute (love it) Nice to see you again my dear Martin
@srganesh (6348)
• India
2 Mar 11
No! I don't think everybody should cry when they get their love heart broken. In my experience, I became angry that she couldn't understand my love for her and thought of making her realize my care for her. So, I was thinking of all the possible ways to take the next step and so I don't feel like crying at all. But that doesn't mean to say I was tough but worried.
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@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
hello srganesh, Maybe you have other means of showing your love (not by crying) Some men,do not cry but resort to drinking and some even lost their jobs because they were not able to concentrate with it,and affects their works. Yes,crying doesn't mean, men are not tough anymore. Thanks for your response and have a great day always
@damned_dle (3944)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
Who said we must not cry just to prove we are tough enough anyway? Ofcourse, any man will cry if they find and lost their one true love ( or sometimes, any kind of love at all!) But I don't think there is a reason to laugh at them.. Anyway, I hope your cousin will get over his broken heart soon!
@junrapmian (2170)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
There are times that however tough we are, we tend to cry for some heartache especially if the person involved is very dear to us. I believe that people, especially men who cry because of heartache is tougher because he is not afraid to show to the world that he can cry over his girl.
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
hello jun, Men who cried for love are the most toughest one for me. They are never afraid or shy to show what they really feel inside,such action is enough to melt a ladies heart. Thanks for your response and have a great day always
@shibham (17022)
• India
1 Mar 11
Hi didi... Here is your stone heartened brother. I am not to cry for someone... no need who is she... my love, sis, mom....or.... Actually, i dont know how to cry. Very poor cousin of you as a male. oh no. have a nice day.
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@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
hello dear bhai, I doubt it my dear (stone hearted?) Uhmn,your time hasn't come yet (love has never comes your way) You will never understand the real meaning of love,unless you can feel it in your heart. So,don't you ever say that my dear brother...
@Wismay (2038)
• India
1 Mar 11
Hi Jaiho! I think, a person cries for something that he gets and loses it. For example, if a person loves somebody but never proposes, he won't cry. But a person who proposes and that other person accepts but later goes away then one cries. It is easy to not cry when we don't have something. But it is difficult not to cry when we lose something that we had and knew very well. The loss makes humans to cry! And it is very natural I think. Happy Mylotting!
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@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
hello wismay, I admire guys who cries for love (those were true lovers in my opinion) I just laugh and want my cousin to have courage to face reality that we do not own any person even if he/she is our wife/husband or lover/partner. It's not easy to mend a broken heart..i knew that,i've been to that and i knew how does it feels. Thanks again for your sharing your thoughts and have a great day always
@tiffnkeat (1679)
• Singapore
1 Mar 11
If someone doesn't cry when heartbroken, it is not called tough. It is called not accepting reality or his heart is not in the relationship at all. We are creatures of emotion, and there is nothing wrong with crying. We all come into this world crying. So the toughest of us all have cried before. And crying has a cleansing and therapeutic effect, so when there is a need, why not cry. May i cry on someone's shoulders? Boo hoo hoo.... hehehe....
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@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
1 Mar 11
hello tnk, Yes,we came out cryin' in this world (others don't cry instantly,but doctors had to pat the butt to make baby cries) Just to know who's tough and never cry when it comes to love. Thanks for your response and have a great day