what are the reasons that provokes a man to hit his partner?

Philippines
March 7, 2011 2:25am CST
is too much love one of them? i remember someone telling me that he's been cheated a few times and he didn't hit any of those girls but when it comes to this one girl he claims to love so much, he suddenly lost his temper and she ended beaten-up by him.
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@kheydia (883)
• Philippines
7 Mar 11
oh, i wont believe that too much love can make a man hit his love one, because what i believe is that if you love someone you cannot afford to hit them, you cannot hurt them emotionally and physically, you have no right to hit someone because our body is so precious and sacred that is abussive, what i know is that when you hit someone there is something wrong with you, and you better go see a doctor, tell that to someone you know, he might be needing a profesional help.
• Philippines
6 Apr 11
hi kheydia! tnx much for your response...yeah, i agree w/ you. if we love someone we will never do anything to harm her...thanks again kheydia, happy mylotting ^_^
@kheydia (883)
• Philippines
6 Apr 11
my pleasure. i really do not believe in hitting someone, even if we do not love them, just the respect of the person is good enough reason why we should not hurt them. =)
@bubuth (1816)
• Philippines
19 Mar 12
because of his too much love in that girl he are also expecting too much for her so he never expected that he will be hurt by this girl by cheating and to release some of the displeasure inside his heart all he can do is to hit the girl. I also think that hitting the person who hurt you so much can really help to release your anger from them. But don't hit them too much.
@cream97 (29175)
• United States
6 Apr 11
Hi. oxash222. Welcome to myLot! There are no reasons that a man should ever hit a woman! Ever, I don't care what went on between the two of them! It does not matter at all! If he says that there is a reason, he has lied!
@chiyosan (29389)
• Philippines
19 Mar 11
Think its not about too muxh live. When you live someone you wont even be able to luft a finger ti hurt that person no matter hiw muxh pain you caused them. I believe more though that some guys are just very quick to hurt their partners... maybe its a psychological thing as well... That hurting someone maybe an outlet to releasr their anger... And poor gf and. Girlfriends and wives get beaten up.....
• Philippines
7 Mar 11
Oh very embarrassing. I don't like guy who hits his loved. I would definitely hit him too.
@weasel81 (2502)
• Australia
7 Mar 11
it runs in famlies when u get in to it. i can tell u from personal experience, my ex was fine up till our son was about a month old. they claim to love you but keep hurting you at the same time. i stuck it out cause i was thinking of our child not me, i was not allowed to do anything like ride my horses with ease. had to be back home by certain times etc. they can seem really nice on the out side but behind closed doors. my ex would get annoyed at me for nothing really, he would say when am i going to grow up. it took me a few yrs to get the condifence up to go to the police and do something. i finally understood what the term ment of seeing stars just over a year ago. my son then said is daddy going to hurt u again. just after easter, it was like right we're going to the police. i've not looked back on it, and have taken my son away best i can from his father.