why there is so much to hate in this world?

Philippines
March 8, 2011 3:07am CST
do you ever feel that you have been hating many things or people so much? as if every minute there is something that bothers you and make your day not good? Wrong gestures, no breading people, I mean why not put it in place?.. Well I do feel that way from the neighbors i have in our apartment compound down to these people at the mall who keeps on looking at my laptop screen to know what I am doing? it bothers a lot right? so if you were in my place? what will you feel? what could you advice me?
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9 responses
@thanks1961 (7049)
• India
8 Mar 11
Hi dear, Our life is becoming more mechanical and self reliance orientation. Competition, large population, money mentality, abundance, attitude, and many more objects contribute for such a situation. I know, in my locality, near to our building, there are 18 flats in the building. There are 4 families on each floor, and 2 of the families on the same floor has no contacts for 3 years and more. Not even look each other and never have a 'hi' if they met on the corridors. What we should understand from this? All are so selfish and self occupied. People don't realise the value of themselves and don't have the time to see what is happening in front of them. I still used to think if this is the case now, what would be after 100 years? Perhaps, we may not be at that time, but we can imagine the situation of those periods. Losing love and understanding the value of human beings. So sad, what else can we say? You come with a good nice topic! Thank-s
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• Philippines
11 Mar 11
you're right I was thinking about it too.. thanks that you like my topic..
@kukueye (1761)
• Malaysia
9 Mar 11
Sometime we expect human too much and also influence from bad people can rally screw up peoples and such ,like hitler able to mobilize a nation against world war because hatred and being oppressed .however history repeat itself people like gaddafi faces civil war and such because it own people are being oppressed for too long , .
• Philippines
9 Mar 11
Sometimes even that person don't have anything bad against you but you must hate that person its just like they don't like them but we do know why!? And some people they put theirselves into a business that they not own..well i just say ignore them..
• Philippines
11 Mar 11
yeah all i can do is ignore, be calm and transfer so that bad vibes would also leave me..
• Philippines
8 Mar 11
Well, don't bother them. I have also encountered such but i have learn it anyway. There are just those people you cannot please but mind you if you also react, it will just ruin your day. So, better leave them behind. I'm not saying that you don't care about them but it's a way of making an exit to prevent them. Life is too short as what was said in "Home Alone".. so, enjoy life. You visit your love ones, go to beautiful spots you haven't been or do things you haven't done in your life. I think, this will make your life less of a burden.
• Philippines
11 Mar 11
thanks for a great advice ma'friend.. somehow I just get to used with these things and just make the best out of it.. or somehow I just visit ma parents so I could take from the environment I have.
• Philippines
11 Mar 11
*I could take a break from the environment I have.
• United States
9 Mar 11
It does seem that the world today is getting a bit uncomfortable to live in. So many people going out of their way to make sure they release all their bad energy and stress on to innocent people. What I would suggest that if you do not stare back eventually they will stop. If it gets to be a bit too much you can calmly and directly look back and them and tell them if there is a problem. Best of luck and I do see you are fairly new to myLot so welcome aboard!
• Philippines
11 Mar 11
I was trying not to notice it but somehow they really over do it. they are having 1 on 1 with my screen, or just an inch at my back or side. Somehow, I want to ask if they want anything or what.. but what I always do is to lessen my lcd light, on that way they notice that I'm not comfortable anymore. After a minute or so I would find another place where I can hang out with a little additional of privacy like a seat in the corner where no one could sneak on what I was doing.
@aeiou78 (3457)
• Malaysia
9 Mar 11
Most of these people are low educated and too free to bother other people. For me, I should ask if I can help them anything or not. If they are still doing the same, I shall close my laptop and do the same to them too. Observe whatever they do. Ask many questions about them. ha! ha! ha! This reaction is considered acceptable to them. If they meet other people, I don't think they are so lucky anymore. They might be bully, beaten or any other violent reactions.
• Philippines
11 Mar 11
haha.. great idea to get back at them but sometimes i just transfer seats where I could find more privacy.. but somehow, sometimes I was thinking that way.. to do it to them.. to ask them if they need anything or they want to be the one using my laptop hehe.. maybe they want to log in to facebook..
@akinad (448)
• Philippines
8 Mar 11
I get those kind of feelings sometimes but I just try to ignore it. Don't be bothered with small things. It will just occupy too much of your time and energy. Remember that we will never get back the time we waste on unimportant events.
• Philippines
11 Mar 11
yeah got that.. time is precious
@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
8 Mar 11
hello, Don't get easily mad with things or people around,it's not good. Yes,there are reasons to get mad/annoyed an pissed off,but try to control your emotions. You are inducing more toxins to your body when you are angry,and toxins causes a lot of health problems. That is why,doctors advised us always to have a laugh rather than frown. Just ignore things that easily distract you or make you angry,and soon you will get rid of getting mad easily. Welcome to mylot and enjoy mylotting
• Philippines
11 Mar 11
thank you for such a great advice ma'friend.. I'll carry it with me everyday..
@EdnaReyes (2628)
• Philippines
8 Mar 11
Sometimes one have this low mood when everything seems to go in wrong places but you should not be carried away by this and always try to be in a cheerful mood. Keep on smiling, smiling on every wrong done on you, every wrong you hear and see, then those smiles would return to you and will make you happy and the world ,too!
• Philippines
11 Mar 11
your such an enlightenment ma'friend such good words to hear that can turn a frown face into a smiling one.. =)
@joygracia (1328)
• Philippines
8 Mar 11
Yes, quite some time when things were unfair and I know for the fact that I have been doing good things but the I end up realizing that that not all the time you get what you desire but most of the time you get what you deserve coz GOD really knows what you deserve and things does come my way as of the moment..;D
• Philippines
11 Mar 11
hi ma'friend, you got my thought about life, yes sometimes we got to be so good but then all we got is not what we deserve somehow another challenge will come.