who do you prefer? a person who loves you more? or the one you love most?

@Romwel (78)
Philippines
March 9, 2011 5:55pm CST
what do you want in a relationship? a person who loves you more than you do? or a person you love more than he/she does?
1 response
• Bulgaria
10 Mar 11
that is one of the most difficult to answer questions asked about relationships.Since having been in both situations I would say that the best thing is to find some kind of ballance.When I had a relationship with a person who loved me more than I did it made me feel calm,steady and peaceful.And to be sure that almost whatever I do,i couldnt lose that person.And that made me happy and secure.But I had been on the other side also,there is a lot of fear,a lot of doubts,but also a lot of risk and passion which made me feel really alive and made me be creative and showing the best of me to keep my partnor's interest and affection.So there are pros and cons in both situations.When there is love between two people,when you love and get love in return,it is always a good thing.
@Romwel (78)
• Philippines
10 Mar 11
you are right. it's a lot nicer if the two persons both love each other in the same way. however, if i'm gonna choose only one of the given choices, i'd rather choose the one that love me more than i did. i believe that love grows as time passes by, that love can be nurtured through time. if it's really meant to be, it's meant to be. thanks for your wonderful comment ralitsatomova