An urgent message you sent and yet no reply.....

@zearah (5289)
Philippines
March 10, 2011 5:57pm CST
How would you feel when a person you trusted with whom you sent a very urgent message but no reply from that person?
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10 responses
@ghing173 (22)
12 Mar 11
So sad if that will happen to me but I can give a chance for her to explain maybe somehow she have a very important reason why she was not able to respond or send a reply to my message.
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@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
12 Mar 11
Yes, I feel so sad. I am waiting for her explanation.
@emine08 (1531)
• Indonesia
11 Mar 11
at first maybe i will feel sad because my friend didnot reply my urgent massage. but i should know also why he/she didnot reply it. i am sure there is some explanations about it. just be a positive thinker zaerah....
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@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
12 Mar 11
Yes, I still pray someday she will come and express her explanation.I would love to hear a word from her.
@wongchoiyee (7403)
• Malaysia
11 Mar 11
Zearah, I have experienced this case before and the result is she never reply my message even I sent her the second time. Maybe she has reason not to reply you. You must find out. You can call her or go to her house to see if she is there she will come out and talk to you. Anyway, its your choice. Good Luck! Don't think too much...Everything will work out fine. I'll pray for you, ok? :)
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@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
12 Mar 11
Thanks for your advise.Actually since my problem had just started after when no reply from her I really feel disappointed but I am not closing my door for her.
@xien2xien (1383)
• Philippines
11 Mar 11
don't be upset right away just think of the other option thst this people might have been doing on why they can't reply to you urgently, don't judge them or get angry maybe there's something they are doing, maybe they are sleeping so they can't read you message instantly, but the best way is to wait for them to reply then say your urgent message then ask them why it takes so long for them to reply, if they have a valid reason then accept it.
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@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
12 Mar 11
I am pissed off really.Anyway I can listen to her explanation if ever.
• Philippines
11 Mar 11
That would make me feel angry and restless. Sending an important message means it needs an important reply if it's a question. These are times when "no news isn't news", at least it's not as I see it.
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@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
11 Mar 11
Time is limited and now the purpose of sending her a message is to solve the current problem if ever she will reply after the limited time then no relevance at all.
@naija4real (1293)
11 Mar 11
I want to tell you that it is not too proper to draw conclusion so quickly. If you sent a message ( a very important one as it seems to be ) and you are have not gotten reply. The best bet is to be patient till you get a reply. Alternatively try and wait for the person to give you his or their own side of the story.As human we are quite imperfect, we are not super-human, we all have limitation. So if a fellow human fails to satisfy our need we should just be a little patient.Even God preaches patient in the holy scripture. thanks
@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
11 Mar 11
Patience? Oh yes!
• United States
11 Mar 11
At first, I"d probably be very concerned that something happened to the person...but if I found out that they were alright...I'd probably be very first hurt, then confused, then i'd reach the plain down flat out angry stage.
@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
11 Mar 11
I feel not comfortable and uneasy because somehow I trusted her and I have respect so right now I don't know if I must send the same message or it would irritate her for redundancy.
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
11 Mar 11
hello zearah, first,i maybe feel upset why there was no response. Then,i will checked the person and confirmed if he/she receives my message. Sometimes we just jump into conclusions without confirming reasons. Have a great day
@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
12 Mar 11
I made three times miss calls to her mobile just to check that she got my message.In fact I saved my sent items too.
• China
21 Mar 11
I do get so much angry that time when i don't get back my massage specially when it is urgent reply. So when the person reply me or call me back after long time then i asked what's wrong with you don't you realize that the matter is urgent and you should have reply me urgently and ask him to reply me urgent when next time i will send you message. Good day!
@cream97 (29166)
• United States
18 Mar 11
Hi. zearah. I would wonder why they have not replied back yet. I will also hope that they have received my message already too. I would try my best to stay calm and not assume that they are just totally ignoring my text message. But if I never hear from them and they are still alive, I may start to think that they have just ignored me.