a story about sisters--a message to all women

@daeckardt (6237)
United States
March 16, 2011 1:52am CST
A friend shared this little story with me and I would like to share it with all my sisters out there. I don't THINK this violates any of the rules I just read. A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day, drinking iced tea and visiting with her mother. As they talked about life, about marriage, about the responsibilities of life and the obligations of adulthood, the mother clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a clear, sober glance upon her daughter.. 'Don't forget your sisters,' she advised, swirling the tea leaves to the bottom of her glass. 'They'll be more important as you get older. No matter how much you love your husband, no matter how much you love the children you may have, you are still going to need sisters. Remember to go places with them now and then; do things with them.' 'Remember that 'sisters' means ALL the women... your girlfriends, your daughters, and all your other women relatives too. 'You'll need other women. Women always do.' What a funny piece of advice!' the young woman thought. Haven't I just gotten married? Haven't I just joined the couple-world? I'm now a married woman, for goodness sake! A grownup! Surely my husband and the family we may start will be all I need to make my life worthwhile!' But she listened to her mother. She kept contact with her sisters and made more women friends each year. As the years tumbled by, one after another, she gradually came to understand that her mother really knew what she was talking about. As time and nature work their changes and their mysteries upon a woman, sisters are the mainstays of her life. After more than 50 years of living in this world, here is what I've learned: THIS SAYS IT ALL: Time passes. Life happens. Distance separates. Children grow up. Jobs come and go. Love waxes and wanes. Men don't do what they're supposed to do. Hearts break. Parents die. Colleagues forget favors. Careers end. BUT......... Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how many miles are between you. A girl friend is never farther away than needing her can reach. When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you have to walk it by yourself, the women in your life will be on the valley's rim, cheering you on, praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on your behalf, and waiting with open arms at the valley's end. Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk beside you....Or come in and carry you out. Girlfriends, daughters, granddaughters, daughters-in-law, sisters, sisters-in-law, Mothers, Grandmothers, aunties, nieces, cousins, and extended family: all bless our life! The world wouldn't be the same without women, and neither would I.. When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we would need each other. My question to you is: Do you consider all women to be your sisters? Have a great day!!!
6 responses
• Baguio, Philippines
17 Mar 11
halu daeckardt, yes of course,becoz,we have one CREATURE,and HE created us as HIS masterpiece.HE created us with all HIS love,.that's why we should love one another,we are sisters. thanks to all who love me as there sister...
@daeckardt (6237)
• United States
17 Mar 11
Thank you for seeing the story in the way it was intended. This was actually sent in an email by one of my ovarian cancer sisters. I have been blessed by knowing these other survivors by being able to share experiences with them. Have a great day!!!
@Jiabsa (511)
• India
17 Mar 11
I consider all the men and women in this world are my brothers and sisters. But.....blood is thicker than water.
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@daeckardt (6237)
• United States
17 Mar 11
I'm not sure exactly what you mean, but the way I see it is that you are more concerned with actual family relations that with being part of the family of mankind. Thanks for your response!
• Australia
16 Mar 11
I don't consider all women to be my sisters; my biological sister is my sister. All my female friends are my friends, and then on top of that, I have close friends who know much more about me then my biological sister does. I feel that sister's and friends are different... I can't tell my sister certain things, but I can tell my friends those things.| It's kind of difficult to explain.
@daeckardt (6237)
• United States
16 Mar 11
I understand how you feel. I got this in an email from a fellow ovarian cancer survivor. I have lost many sisters, many of whom I never had the opportunity to communicate with as well as some that I did get to know through various online support groups, to this disease. I am currently fighting a recurrence myself. When you have this in common with other people, one might start feeling different about it. I used to feel the way you do. I think most Christians would refer to them as "sisters in Christ" or something similar.
• China
16 Mar 11
The mother in the story is very wise. Yes, husband and children are very important to a woman in a family, but she also need "sisters", whom she can turn up to when she is in trouble or when her husband and children cannot understand her.Women needs her own life,too.
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@daeckardt (6237)
• United States
16 Mar 11
I agree with you about needing my own life. And men and children don't always know how to understand our problems. Thanks for the response!
• Philippines
16 Mar 11
hello daeckardt, This is really nice story i believe that we need sisters in our life partners will leave you but not your sister about your question most of my friends are my sisters some of them are like a mother to me i am thankful that despite of what happening in my life they are always there for me. have a nice day!
@daeckardt (6237)
• United States
16 Mar 11
I think that the women that are like a mother to you are probably the best friends you can have (unless your mother was a monster). I try to be there for people and if I can be like a mother figure for the younger women then that is a good thing. Thanks for the response!
• United States
21 Mar 11
very very touching