Things about relationships are strange

@Madmax73 (280)
Romania
March 18, 2011 9:37am CST
Now it's about me. i had a girlfriend for 4-5 year, there was love in this relationship, but something went wrong. we split up, and now she hooked up with her ex-boyfriend, that she knows i hate, and i don't stand seeing her near him. what wrong here, i have a problem, or she is the one that still had feelings for him during our relationship?
2 responses
adnileb
@adnileb (5256)
• Philippines
18 Mar 11
Something went wrong? Like what exactly? Have you evaluated your feelings to her OR her feelings with you? There might be some differences on both your feelings that you have to talk about.
Madmax73
@Madmax73 (280)
• Romania
18 Mar 11
We had a stupid fight on the phone, and since that fight we didn't gave a sign to each other:| It's damn stupid, i know, but that's life...I just don't know how to put it or what to say, we still loved the US thing, but we changed...
adnileb
@adnileb (5256)
• Philippines
18 Mar 11
S**t happens EVERYDAY. Even in your luckiest day. =( That's bad. But you just have to think for the better. Well, if you really love her and don't want to see her with her EX, then you've got to do something.
Madmax73
@Madmax73 (280)
• Romania
18 Mar 11
i don't wanna see her with the ex:) but it's a bit to late for that, i respect her, it's her decision (that i don't understand)
boonedog73
@boonedog73 (17)
• United States
18 Mar 11
Well, and I am not being rude here, just asking....do you think it really matters? You all broke up. Maybe this ex came back into her life and she saw something new? I would not think too much about her feelings for him when she was with you. She was with you for a long time so I am sure there was love. :)
Madmax73
@Madmax73 (280)
• Romania
18 Mar 11
yeah, but the thing is that in our relationship, she cheated me with him, and yes i am moving on, but it's something that is f**ckin my head, and i am trying to understand, it's not that i still care, it's just a big why:D yeah , i know i'm weak, and i should stop with this whining
Madmax73
@Madmax73 (280)
• Romania
18 Mar 11
Yeah, i'm lucky. Life is life.
boonedog73
@boonedog73 (17)
• United States
18 Mar 11
OH! I didn't know the whole cheating thing. :( What I try to do in life is this: I take my problem and ask myself if this was my friend's problem what would I tell them? Well, in this case, try it. She cheated, she is back with him. What would you be saying?? Everything happens for a reason. This may be a blessing in disguise. She would have taken you into more heartache. Feel lucky she is not in your life anymore in that way.