Undecided to love

@maria1081 (1252)
Philippines
March 19, 2011 9:56am CST
Here I'am again, going to talk about my unrequited love to someone. I'm getting tired of it, I'm undecided. Will it be worth the risk? My heart wouldnt afford to bleed again. For all the years of hiding in a dark shadow, pretending to be happy eventhough something is lacking. Is he the missing piece in my life's puzzle? The problem is I'm not the only one who's undecided, I dont have the courage to ask him if he will pursue the possibility of having a relationship with me. I dont have all the time to wait. But how will I know if we leave everything on a guessing game. Have anyone of you felt the same? Feel free to share your thoughts, your response may lessen the burden im feeling right now.
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4 responses
@prasunsam (359)
• India
19 Mar 11
love is a special feeling and everybody should experience it in his life time.everybody should spread love.if someone has been hurt that doesn't means that he would be hurt again,its never too late in life.If you love someone say him freely that you do.If he accepts then well and good if he doesn't then may be he was never yours.
@maria1081 (1252)
• Philippines
19 Mar 11
actually he did accept it, i didnt directly told him but my writings showed him that I cared for him. But though he knew, something is still missing. Maybe the distance hinders our feelings to grow.
@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
20 Mar 11
When we love someone,we hope it would last for a lifetime. But hoping for a love that is not sure is hard,and always give pain. Sometimes we have to let go before the other person will realized what he lost. I hope you will find the answer to your questions,and i wish you all the luck waiting for that someone to have a final confirmation of what's the real score between you and him
@acey76 (1278)
• Philippines
19 Mar 11
If you have the strength ask him ..and tell him what you feel, there are certain factors that you presume something which is not true..All you need is to ask directly to have a straight answer. Love is the greatest feeling of happiness felt by an individual but it also brings the greatest pain. If you wan't to love again you are ready for the risks.
@eurekafemme (5881)
• Philippines
19 Mar 11
C'mon, Maria. We are already in the 22nd century. It is ok to ask him what he feels for you and the possibility of having a future together as a couple. If you are willing to take the risk of losing him by keeping your silence, then, you must be thinking unwise. Why not take the risk of being honest with him and see how he reacts. Though, hew may not or may reciprocate your feelings toward him but at least you made your move and I'm pretty sure you will not regret it even if he ignores you. Go, girl. Ask him.