Infatuation or Love????

Philippines
March 21, 2011 8:10am CST
I have this job right now and we are having our training for 3 weeks. There was this guy as one of the trainer and he was annoying for me because he always comes into our room without anything to do. Our trainer asked for my number and I gave it to her because I don't want to be judged as a sarcastic one.It's only number then as I was taking my dinner my phone rang and unregistered number was in it. To cut the story short it was the guy that I find annoying who was texting me. I told him that i had a boyfriend but he insisted that we will give it a shot for our relationship and I would give him a chance to prove to me that how much he loves me. Wow.! that's ridiculous, he is making me a two timer! He told me that since my boyfriend is not here he will be there for me. He told me that from the first day he saw me, there was spark and he was in love for me! That's something that I believe was nonsense after all. I didn't even make a reply to his messages and not taking his calls and he was angry at me and his messages was really disappointing for me. He send messages that I hope that I was happy hurting him but I was not. I did it because it is the right thing to do.I will be unfair if I would entertain him.I see him only as my friend and my trainer. Sincere friendship is all I can ever give. I believe It's not love but only infatuation.
1 response
@kharen (1488)
• Philippines
22 Mar 11
You will definitely know when it's love, I think. I've had a problem like this before and I ended up breaking up with my boyfriend. But it wasn't to be with the guy I've fallen in love with but because I knew, I didn't want to be unfair to my ex-boyfriend. I didn't tell my ex why I broke up with him. I just told him, I can't continue anymore. That I want to be alone which was true but I didn't tell him I was already in love with someone else. This new guy who showed me many things, who inspired me to do things I've never tried doing before, who made me feel special in every way was a new friend of mine and I just fell for him. I knew I had to break up with my ex because I wanted to be fair to everyone. I left. I left my ex, I left my friend, too. Right now, I'm single and happy. Not that happy when I was with my friend who I fell in love with but at least I'm contented as long as I don't see him or hear from him anymore. I know I still have feelings for him and maybe a part of why I'm trying to strive harder in life is because of him. Because he made me feel I can do many things and that in a way, he's still inspiring me and he made me feel that someone like him saw me as this very special lady even just once in my life.
• Philippines
24 Mar 11
Hi kharen, Thank you for sharing your experience.That's good if you are happy being single.You have any choices in this life and we stand by these choices we made. The thing I did was to tell to our trainer to stop calling me and texting me. He was really mad at me for not giving him any chances but all I want was to be honest enough for myself and with him. The bad thing was he is not talking to me in the office and i guess it could be better this way.At last I am free of all the worries just because of him.=)