I FORGOT OUR MONTHSARY. What shoul I do?
By romarcharity
@romarcharity (36)
Philippines
March 21, 2011 12:14pm CST
Last day is our Monthsary, but suddenly I forgot about it and at the end of the day I did not able to greet my girlfriend a HAPPY MONTHSARY. Every month we greet each other but I forgot to greet her because I did not know it was our monthsary. I am a disoriented person in terms of dates that is why i tend to forget what is the special occasion and what date is today. I forgot our monthsary many times and now she is anggry eith me. What should I do to cover up my mistake?
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11 responses
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
21 Mar 11
Buy a flower and a chocolate,and say sorry for forgetting the date.
I am sure your gf will appreciate your way of saying esp with flowers.
Don't worry,if your gf loves you,she will surely understand you and will forgive you for that.
But make sure to do it the first time tomorrow...of course..call her now and do the next step tomorrow
@romarcharity (36)
• Philippines
23 Mar 11
Giving Flowers is a great idea but I have a plan when to get flowers. My plan to give her a flowers is during her birthday this coming the month of May which is her birthday. She really likes flowers as what she said to me, and so far I did not able to give her flowers because that is not my style. For me I do not want to give flowers because it will not last. But since she said to me many times she likes flowers, I will give her flowers during her birthday and for now I am pretending that I will not give her flowers because I will surprise her during her birthday.
Maybe Ii is not the time yet to give her a flowers because it will ruin my plan. I will consider another way instead of giving a flower. Thank you for the advised.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
hi,
the guys most problem is forgetting their monthsaries with their girlfriends,i think you should need to return the feelings of your girl,do what ever you think that she can forgive you,and of course to promise that you will never forget it again.
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
22 Mar 11
Hi romar charity: I think it's normal. We, men are bad with dates actually. Just be honest, tell her that you feel sorry for doing this and that you want to replace it with another date celebrating your monthsary. It doesn't matter that you've forgotten the exact day, the most important is your intention I think. You should also tell her that you think it's important this date but you just forget it because of your work and your memory but even with that, in your heart you'll always remember this day as a very special one, etc. You know what I mean, make her feel how sad you feel because of this mistake. Good luck.
ALVARO
@nj_1022 (251)
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22 Mar 11
Apologize and give her your monthsary present. Make her feel she is very important ans that you are not happy that you forgot about your monthsary.
@lovebugjess (262)
• Philippines
22 Mar 11
Take her to a beautiful place for her to relax and forget everything about forgetting your monthsary. hehehe if i where your bf i will gonna kill you,.
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
22 Mar 11
Men tend to forgot things like birthday and anniversary. You are the the only one. YoOu can tell your girl friend this fact. But, still she would think that you don't care enough, since you forgot it many times now. There are tools to remind you of an important date, why didn't you use them?
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
22 Mar 11
Apologize with sincerity and explain truthfully that you forgot. There is no covering because she is obviously aware. Although it seems a bit too soon for month celebrations, but if it keeps the relationship fresh and thriving I say Good for you guys.
Best of luck and maybe set a reminder alert on your phone to remind you.
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
22 Mar 11
Hi Romarcharity! Welcome to Mylot!
Flowers or chocolates would never fail to put a smile on a woman's face.
Well this usually works for me when me and my husband had a misunderstanding.
Why don't you make your monthsary a red letter day on your calendar or make a reminder on your cellphone on the date of your monthsary so you won't forget it again? Monthsarys are quite a big deal for girls, so if you really don't like them to be angry with you, better remember your monthsary dates.
Monthsarys are quite a big deal for girls, so if you really don't like them to be angry with you, better remember your monthsary dates.
@madp_071983 (228)
• Oman
22 Mar 11
Dude, you must never cover up a mistake. After all, it will boomerang to you! Better yet be honest and tell her the truth. Sincere apology pays. So as for you not to be a disoriented person, better set the monthsary dates in advance on your mobile phone under anniversary, meeting, or memo. Include as well the time, so the moment you wake up in the morning as your alarm brings you up, you immediately give her a call and wake her up with your greetings! Make sure to have those presents ready the moment you bring her out for a date that eve. Remember, committing a mistake once is just and natural. Once is enough, twice is too much, thrice is dangerous. I hope I was able to help. =)
@katrinapaz (2436)
• Philippines
22 Mar 11
Hi romarcharity! so that you wont forget it every month I would suggest that you get your calendar in the room and mark the day of each month when your monthsary falls. Put a red X on it so that you wont forget that significant date. Also, just apologize and say that you would try harder not to forget it again. Make it up to her by dining out or treating her to a movie or a salon. Don't forget your flowers and chocolates :)
