can you stay in a relationship with someone who's very verbally abusive?

March 22, 2011 3:29am CST
have you ever got into a relationship with someone who doesn't really care if the partner is already hurt with every rude and hurtfull words they say just because they're mad or you guys have quarels or that they always believe your into someone and your doing dirty works at their backs( in short paranoid)even if you say you dont... well some other type of people do became patient with them because of love. but is that really enough? is love enough for you to take every insulting words your partner tells you every now and then and never says sorry afterwards? well me? i'd rather leave that relationship and stay put with someone who cares about what i feel, and treats me right. that how i feel i' m loved. point is, why would you have to burn all your patience to that someone who's really rude to you even if you do love them. sometimes being in a relationship with someone who's verbally abusive and paranoid blows all your love away and is being replaced with hatred.. we all deserve to be happy, and being happy means being in love and being respected.
2 responses
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
22 Mar 11
i would definitely leave that person, i don't like being always suspected of doing something what i'm not doing, i have this ex-bf that always saying that i'm inlove with the other guy, he has this one man which being jealous and always suspecting that we have a relationship, i'm always saying that he's the one i love so stop suspecting, but he ignores me and as the day goes by continually suspecting me, what i did is that i talk to this man and say that i will break up with my bf and we will pretend as my new bf just to insult him and prove that his suspicion was right and hurt him so bad..... i hate him, i have loved him and all he ever do is hurt me with his paranoid thinking
@Monkeyrose (2840)
• Canada
22 Mar 11
no. I was in a relationship in which my partner called me names and yelled a lot. It was not healthy and I got out. I am so glad I did.