How do you know if your in love?

March 22, 2011 4:45am CST
The most important indication is the test of time. Love comes after a sufficient period has elapsed so you can appreciate your love ones qualities. here are some important signs: if you are in love you'll be with your sweathearts' personality. youl'll admire his good qualities but you'll also be aware of his defects. your thoughs will not be centered on other person; you'll think first of his happiness, then of your own. you'll identify yourself with your beloved completely, sharing his dreams and plans for the future. if your confused or uncertain if to whom are you in love with your' probably not in love at all.you'll have feelings of security and trust, the feeling that you can confidently place your future happiness in his charge. physical attraction plays less important the when your head over heals in some infatuation. this is because in real love physical contact has meaning and expresses the affection one person has for the other. with infatuation physical contact is an end in itself and exist largely, to please the wants that could be pleased easily by someone else. the emotion will stand the acid test of time. where its false and based only on physical assets, it may change quickly and unexpectedly. infatuation raely last a year but real love often last a lifetime
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
26 Mar 11
Hello there, Love is a very complex thing. We don't see the faults in the other and only see the good things and love them for that. It is something that makes you feel you cannot stay without the other. It is a mutual feeling that each other can't live without one another. It is very hard to explain what love is, but i am sure one can feel what love is. Love is all about giving and nothing about taking. You love someone, you give your everything to that person and you are always there when they need you. No one can understand what love is unless they experience this on their own. I have experienced love, what it is like to love and i have been deceived by the same. I thought she loved me, but she didn't, she only used me, my love to comfort her, support her. Love can hurt, so take care my friends.