Are you happy or not in your married life?
By thereza
@thereza (314)
Philippines
March 22, 2011 10:42am CST
There' s song with a lyrics of "it's so sad to belong to someone else when the right ones comes along"
The first time I heard the song i didn't like it because for me its seems very unfair. Having a relationship with someone and ends in marriage it means that you love her/him very much. For me you marry him or her because you feel love, but then suddenly your love for your partner was gone. I hate it.!! But that was my views before...
Now I realize that this song is really a reality and its a very very very sad condition. I hope only few people are experiencing this kind. I suggest that you must be sure enough with yourself who to marry and who do you really love with your heart and soul.. before getting into marriage, please be careful. so that it won't like this. You! are you happy in your married life or not?? Can you relate in this lyrics?
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9 responses
@luckyling21 (88)
• China
23 Mar 11
To be honestly, I am not happy in my maried life. the biggest reason is that my husband and i in different place.nearly we can meet every other one month or two months!couple life should this two people are together each other.not like us.when i am not myself ,i can' release myself!i wish for my husband stay with me,for better or for worth, we are together,that will be better!
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
22 Mar 11
Getting married doesn't give assurance that you will be happy for the rest of your life.
Some couples are lucky to have been living together for the rest of their lives happily and contented.
But some couples didn't lasts a lifetime.
@jpso138 (7851)
• Philippines
23 Mar 11
I am indeed happy with my married life. I have a loving and understanding wife and an adorable son. Well, marriage is not basically easy considering that each of you have different attitude and have different point of views. But what is important is that each one will accept each others opinion and understand each others feeling and from there meet halfway or give in for a benefit of both.
@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
1 Apr 11
Hello Thereza, yes I am happy, now. We are been working in our marriage for 11 years in Church ministeries. I has been hard, but I am happy with my huby, after all. Kind Blessings!... Dainy
@annapplez (208)
• Australia
23 Mar 11
I can relate to the lyrics for sure. My feelings for my husband, and I'm sure his feelings for me, fluctuate all the time. Somedays you are certain that you're meant to be together and you'll be together forever. Other days, you're wondering just how much longer it will last. They're the bad days and I hope there isn't too many of them. I hope we never get to the stage that the song writer was in.
@aprilsong (1884)
• China
23 Mar 11
Generally speaking, i am happy with my marriage.
Someone once said couples will face problems after they get married 7 years. which is call" 7 year itch". It makes sense in some part. Because after 7 years of marriage, the fresh feelings are all gone. While at this time, you got kids,and the houseworks will be much more than before. So the couples will quarrel over small things like taking care of kids or doing houseworks. And if at this time, a new man or woman appears before you. or, let us say, your once lover come back, you will can't stop compare him or her with your spouse.
But have you asked yourself, what if you marry that man or woman?
It is a pity to choose the wrong one as one's spouse. But i think we should try to keep the family intact. for the sake of the kids.
@donski (132)
• Philippines
23 Mar 11
I cannot say i have a perfect marriage but at least i can say i am happy and contented. You really can never tell that is the right one for you until you live together under one roof, share common things and as days passed by you'd soon realized your differences. but still if you managed to handle all these trials then marriage will work. Sometimes i guess, those marriage that didn't work are those that are not yet ready to accept married life, couples doesn't have enough patience, endurance, and no complete trust and faith with each other, jealousy, intolerance, differences in religion, higher expectations, ego and so much pride. Marriage is a two way street, it needs an open communication between husband and wife.
@abatencila (970)
• Philippines
22 Mar 11
I'm honestly happy with my marriage. Marriage is a working process, both of you should make it work perfectly as possible. Maybe some are too practical to marry for the wrong reasons, I know someone like that..sacrificing their own happiness for the sake of their families welfare. I don't want to judge if it's right or wrong...but for me...I can't live with the man I don't really love.
