girlfriend matter

India
March 29, 2011 6:26am CST
hi everybody.how are you today? i have a problem today . My girlfriend is not understanding me because today when she was unhappy then i had tried to make her happy. To do this i had also told some silly jokes due to my over confidence .now she is thinking that i am physically interact with her .please help me how can i make her convenient.
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6 responses
@CONDLAUR (134)
• Romania
29 Mar 11
Let her breathe for couple of days. after that go to her straight and say that you did not mean all of that. Tell her that you left her space and time to think for 2 days. After 2 days if she loves and need you beside her, she will be happy to see you and kiss you and she will say that she missed you those 2 days.
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
29 Mar 11
Hi. aqiblot. Welcome to myLot! I think that you should explain to her how you feel. Tell her that you are sorry for saying jokes around her. Tell her that you did not mean any harm at all. Let her know that you love her. Maybe you should plan a surprise date to show her that you still care about her.
• United States
29 Mar 11
Hi aqiblot and a warm welcome to you to myLot! Love at times is so complicated. It really should not be when we are in love. I am sure you have tried asking her what exactly is bothering her and to date you have not either received a straight forward answer or explanation. I am wondering if you have asked her how you can make her happy? What can you do to make things right again between the two of you? Maybe your jokes were not bad, maybe she is experiencing something that at the moment humor could not repair the issue. Try asking her if there is anything you can do for the sake of love for the two of you to be happy. Let her know that unless she conveys this to you, you are uncertain as to how you can help. Best of luck to you.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
29 Mar 11
If she is thinking this you are physically interact with her then you not go near or approach her again and again and left for some time alone. Ask politely whats the problem share with you and say if you dont want to share with me then no problem I will not force but say I am asking because I want you will always happy. My friend if you are approaching any girl again and again without her wish even she is your girlfriend then a girl will feel you want to touching or interact physically.
@wadabski (761)
• Philippines
29 Mar 11
I am no love doctor but I think the traditional flowers and chocolate will always do the trick. I do not know what is with girls and flowers as well as chocolates. I do this if my fiancee is angry or sad and it never fails. Try doing this.
• United States
29 Mar 11
try everything in your power you need to be her romeo tell her she is beautiful and how much she means to you take her on a very romantic date show her what a good time is it will bost her confidence. trust me a woman can feel when you are trying to boost thier confidence and if you try hard enough and start suceeding at it you will notice very quickly but yes flowers and chocolates is start but make sur you go all out dont halfass anything in a relationship.