DEALING with negativity - H O W..??

Thinking negatively can be a person's worst enemy! We must try as hard as we can to overcome and not allow anyone bring down our way of thinking. It is not an easy task by no means but when people feel this way they must find within themselves to get out of the momentum of the negative moments. I would suggests to perhaps surround yourself specifically with positive type people for a while and distance yourself from any negative type people. By not doing so it will deteriorate your health which in the end you will be on the loosing end and the negative people will still be who they are. One thing I live by in life busybee is that I will never no matter what allow anyone to change my character. So by buying to negative behavior to a sense it will change your character because rage and out bursts will occur causing you to perhaps be someone you are not. I wish you well and hope that you can somehow try as hard as you can try and think of more positive ways to make a few changes in your life.

Hi busybee10 , I love your avatar .. true there are many negativity around the world , but those who plummet into so and do not want to be helped , there's nothing much which can be done. I believe when someone is filled with positivity it can mean two things. Positive with a bright mindset and facing life with good strides or being positive but stepping on others. The latter part should be avoided at all times , I myself don't want to become like that. Good topic.

Nice topic..:) Holy books and holy men say walk away. It is easier said than done, especially when family is involved, and so are obligations and responsibilities. Of course, walking away is the most desirable version..but when it is not possible... I am not here to advise. I have failed many times to surface from the negativity. I keep trying, and trying, and trying. I see no way out of this dungeon. I try to keep my mind away from it all finding alternate ways to be happy so that this dungeon is not being explored. But every now and then, I am dragged by the loved ones into this dungeon to explore, and I do then react from deep seated fears. Hope somebody will come up with solutions.

Just be positive and smile. And you can scream later when you are alone and say aarrrrgggghhh to release your disappointment. Then you can go back in a positive way and smile.

Being nega makes me weak, and makes me miserable, there are a lot of reason why i would ne negative, but why would i deal with such feeling it would only make me feel loser and feel miserable,the antidote is just being positive!

busybee10, always believe in yourself and walk away from negativity. if it is part of a conversation then steer it round to a positive direction. every cloud has a silver lining is a very true saying but also for some 'every silver lining has a cloud' and it is these people you need to be more positive with. Negative people are not negative because they are bad but more likely they are sad.

Most of the person doesn't get success due to their attitude towards goal which he try achieve. And a major part is in that is self confidence. If you have to grow just positive thinking then you must achieve at least short goals to gain some self confidence and you will see th changes in negativity... Thanks..

Usually, I'll avoid talking to them if I'm not close to them in the first place. If they are my good friends, then I'll just be direct and ask them to stop being so negative as negativity is contagious. I'm not the most positive person in the world so I don't like it when I have to deal with another person's complaints and negativity. People should really think more about what's happening around them and stop thinking only for themselves. When they do that, they will realize how small and insignificant their problems are.

This is actually my problem right now I think the solution here is I really have to hurry in applying for my job so that I won't be alone inside my bedroom. Right now I am lazy in doing my graphic stuff but then I am also doing some exercises to help me get rid of my negativities that are toxin to my mind and body.

It is easy to say be positive but when fears set in, negativity follows. I think we need first to conquer our fear before we can have a positive outlook of life. We need to be assure that we have someone besides us, as human we need to belong, we need companion and this the plain reason why a woman was created, to be with the first man. To make him feel he is with somebody he can trust and depend on. Once we have this assurance, I think we can be brave enough to say that everything will be alright, the first step in being positive!

First you have to accept yourself and you should encourage a positive mind. You should look in every situation positively. YOu should not get affected by people around you who display their negativity.

Hello busybee10, you are right that when you have to face a lot of negativity from people around you, it saps your energy and happiness and it becomes very depressing for you. We all have to deal with such issues at one time or other. What you can do is first give it a thought why they are behaving in such a manner. You may try confronting them directly, most often it is something very trivial that is nagging these people about you but are somehow unwilling to speak it out with you. And just because they are thinking about it all the time, it just comes out as a negative action or negative speech against you. So give it a thought whether you can do this. 50% times it helps. Another way is to simply ignore it and eventually it will go away as these people realise that the negativity is not affecting you and continuing with it is a futile effort on their part. Keeping cheerful and maintaining positive attitude around them will eventually make them feel good about you. If none of this works, WALK AWAY! Just do not let any kindof negativity prey on your happiness and wellbeing. No matter who the person is, its just not worth it.

Being Positive is a blessing you can always be with other people but negativity is another thing in mind you should focus first on positive people first.

You have to be with people who are positive in their outlook in life before you can be with people whom you feel negative, partly because your so positive that you tend to absorb their negativity that for sure may be your case some days that are relatively you're not just into is a problem with people I bet a lot of days when you were on your mood you dont' feel the same way.It's very nice to accept that we feel negative about things and the same time the reverse of it.