is my brother really in love?

Philippines
April 5, 2011 10:32am CST
Oh. . This thought is always on my mind after knowing that he's girlfriend now is my cousin's enemy. Anyway, it's not about her,being the enemy, but it is about her being so boastful and ugly. Oh I'm so mean. I'm so sorry. Just because she boast about her money and wealth even before I knew her, so I got these thoughts in mind that aside from she's ugly, she is so boastful and so snobbish. Well, maybe, first impression last. And it's not just about impression but, it's really her. Oh my. . I have nothing to do but to accept. I don't know why but I don't think my brother is in love with her, I just hope that he's not a user or a gold digger or something, because that will be a different issue. And I don't want him doing those things too. Cuz if that will happen I'll be on the girl's side. Have you ever had the same thought when your sibling introduce his/her girlfriend that you don't really like? What happen? How do you cope up with that feeling? I just really wanted to know. I hope it will help me lot. Happy mylotting.:)
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@tintukm (1084)
• India
15 Apr 11
Well any relationship can become fruitful within an instant. Always getting to know the person is what we can do. This being your brother and you having an first and that too a bad impression about her, I would say you just hint your brother about her the way you think it is. Later on he could judge her and as you too doubt he's not really into it then it would be good else you would regret in not letting him know about her. Anyway the first impression is not a thing with which we would make out all about a person. Take time both you and your brother then move on if its worthy enough.
• Philippines
17 Apr 11
I was thinking that all of those ideas are just my impressions of who she really is but now, it is really her. Everyone is telling me about her attitude. Even my dad talked to my brother about it but he is blinded by his love towards that girl. Eww.. ha ha. I'm so bad. Just because she's not pretty and so she's so boastful too. I pity her. I'm so mean. I never been mean before.. ha ha .. lol. Oh. another thing, my brother inherit her attitude. That makes me hate that girl much.
@tintukm (1084)
• India
17 Apr 11
Love is blind, huh. I must say if your brother is acting like her too and has lost the part of love with you guys then its better you all try and show him an example of her attitude and boastful character. If she's shown out and e understands that, then things would get easy for him to really know who she is and is not the right person after all. I mean red handed proof will be enough, go for some recording, or like forcing her to boast about her when he's around, try out something is you all are sure that this girl can't be his partner any way around.
• Philippines
23 Apr 11
I want to but I feel so guilty to do it. Seems like my conscience tells me already not to do it. Cuz I know it's not the right thing to do. And I'm not used to it too. I laugh everytime I try mimicking her, and my brother. Now, I'm starting to accept things, and let him do what he wanted to do, and not to be bother about those things, cuz it feels better not to think of them.
@antoxgun (93)
• Indonesia
5 Apr 11
maybe this can happen to any man and probably his best solution was also different, if I ..., I would have responded with a relaxed, because the first impression is not necessarily bad, maybe he wants to show the bad things first, or maybe even worse he just wanted to know the seriousness of a person, ...... maybe you can think again, and I hope to in the face with a relaxed
• Philippines
5 Apr 11
Yup I really hope that evrything will be that easy. Well I guess, the is her human nature. I'm pertaining to the attitude of the girl. And so, dealing with them is quite hard for me. So I decided not to talk with them the whole duration they we're here. I'm just avoiding any possibilities of quarrel. ha ha. I'd never been quarrelsome anyways. Thanks for the response then antoxgun!:)