a little bit worries about getting pregnant
By lovebugjess
@lovebugjess (262)
Philippines
8 responses
@manojkrs291 (482)
• Delhi, India
10 Apr 11
a girl becomes a complete woman just after giving birth to a child. Its a natural action so dont worry about getting pregnant. You will not face any problem if your partner is with you. every woman wants to be a mother and for it she has to give birth to a child you have to do this also.
@lovebugjess (262)
• Philippines
10 Apr 11
i feel i wanna cry now, they said when your partner is near with you you will never be afraid anymore, mmmm Thank you my friend
@vannyt (343)
• Philippines
10 Apr 11
It's ok, it doesn't mean that right after getting married you're going to get pregnant at once. You could always talk about the situation to your partner. I'm not an expert cause I don't have kids myself but it's part of planned parenthood. You have to plan when you are ready to become parents. Well, good luck to your future plans.
@lovebugjess (262)
• Philippines
10 Apr 11
Yes you are right, i have to talk to him about this situation, maybe he will understand me. thanks a lot
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
10 Apr 11
That is what I am going to say, just because you get married doesn't mean you have to have a baby right away, or all at, depending on what you and your boyfriend decide. This is something you should absolutely talk about before getting married. Do you both want kids? How soon? How many? Do you agree where abortion is concerned? These are very important, because you don't want to have struggles in your marriage because you disagree on even one of these questions..
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
10 Apr 11
Ohhh friend I am not worry about pregnancy because I like more and more children but God worse on me even no single child in my life since last 7 years because I like so much small child god is taking my exam
@lovebugjess (262)
• Philippines
17 Apr 11
sorry to hear that my friend. It is just am a little worried about having kids. but we already talked about that. and we agreed to take our time since we are still young
@wadabski (761)
• Philippines
10 Apr 11
This may be a normal emotional responds as well as mental stress on having a child. You may have unconscious doubt of you capability as a mother to be in your mind. Things will catch up and I know with your love of each other things will go the right way and smoothly. Good luck
@lovebugjess (262)
• Philippines
10 Apr 11
ohh i do hope hope he will understand me my dear friend. I am really afraid, he always say he is happy when he saw me pregnant and keep imagining things like how do i look when i got pregnant
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
10 Apr 11
I think that it is fine to get married then have a first baby two or three years later. Then you and your husband will have time to enjoy being together before you have a little baby to care for. You have plenty of time to get ready for the idea of getting pregnant. When you do get pregnant then pregnancy is an exciting journey. You might want to have a first baby in around 3 years time and then a second baby in around 5 years time. Then you will have a superb age gap between your children. I hope that you have a wonderful time at your wedding and honeymoon. A few years down the track you will feel totally ready for pregnancy.
@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
10 Apr 11
you should know the main reason why you want it. there are many reasons why you may tell yourself that you want it but deep inside you are afraid or not prepared, and sometimes you're just bothered by your "first impressions" on pregnancy that's why you say you're not afraid. and when it comes to fear, there are many reasons for that.... such as seeing people on TV or on reality having difficulties in giving birth. if you need help i can help. just drop me a message. :)
