Wife vs other women? Why is it that man has other woman?

Philippines
April 12, 2011 2:35am CST
It has been a long time since I am searching for an answer to my question, why do man have other woman? who are they love most? the wife of the other woman? Hope somebody can tell me...thanks
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@thereza (316)
• Philippines
12 Apr 11
Because they are unfair and do not know how to respect their wives. If they have any problem they must talk about it first and not to jump on another problem. They are cowards and very selfish on doing such things. I hate people with affairs even they have already married.
• Philippines
13 Apr 11
me too, mistresses nowadays are the ones who feel that they are the legal wives. I know someone who has a wife and at the same time cheating on his wife... the most annoying thing is the guy spent the night with his mistress and his kid. Im wondering what his alibi to his wife when sleeping with her mistress...
@jaiho2009 (38820)
• Philippines
12 Apr 11
Some men just find it as curiosity and later get used to it and become an affair,and some lasts for having relationship and even involved with having a child. There are different reasons why men/husband involved into such elicit affairs...but whatever their reason is...it's still consider as cheating,unfaithful and a sin. If they are not happy with their wives or marriage life,why can't they resort to divorce or legal separation rather than hurting the one that faithfully loved them.
• Philippines
13 Apr 11
maybe because they are selfish and thinks that they are so macho... they want to keep their wives and at the same time want to keep their mistresses also. Guys like this dont have conscience.. they do not realize that they are destroying the lives of their mistresses...
• Philippines
12 Apr 11
That is a case-to-case basis. there are men who commit infidelity toward their wives yet they love their wives so much. other men do it for fun and consider it as measurement of masculinity.others do it because they just want to give it a nice try since they have friends who have 'other women', too. most men get to involve to other girls besides their wives when the love they feel for their lifetime partners seems to fade as both are hooked to personal concerns.there are various reasons depending on the situation at hand.for the question, "who are they love most?",depends also to the parties concerned. i have someone i know who is living with a man who is married and has children.the girl is also married and has children. both of them are into rocky marriages, they say. i can say that they love each other so much despite of the very complicated situation they are into.the reason i know why they engaged themselves to it because the husband of the girl doesn't care much about the family, on the other hand, the wife of the guy (according to the guy) has a very irritating attitude. the guy also said that he never loved his wife from the very start only that he impregnated her by mistake.
@isloooboy (1741)
• United Arab Emirates
12 Apr 11
Because wife starts acting as real wife and most of the time she don't want to perform as other woman to his husband when he wants her very badly to be other woman. :D lol cheers
• Philippines
13 Apr 11
yeah, someone told me that wives should act like a mistress, a mother and a bestfriend
@lyamsitiy (104)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
For every men, the answer might be different. To some men if the he has mane woman then it might be because he just needs to feel young again. Aging does things to people and for the men it makes them feel old and not in the game zone anymore. There are also men that they have other woman because they don't love their wives on the first place. Maybe they married their wives because she got accidentally pregnant or because it was an arrange marriage. Then there are men that has real feeling towards the other woman. They might be past lovers who haven't really moved on or tried to but was not successful in forgetting their feelings. Or it might be that as time goes by the chemistry between the husband and the wife is lost and the husband found that spark from another woman. Or better yet maybe because men are polygamous by nature thats why they cant stay loyal to one girl for the rest of their lives.