Not having a kid for 5 years

Philippines
April 13, 2011 10:14am CST
I've been married for five years but still dont have a kid. still waiting and praying for God's plan for me. I already have a check up with my OB Gyne and everything is fine. Our pastoratold me that I have to declare that I'll be having kids soon!
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4 responses
QeeGood
@QeeGood (1213)
• Sweden
13 Apr 11
As it is said it takes two to make a baby. It can be psychological and it can be physiological all options should be under consideration to find out why you aren't getting pregnant.
QeeGood
@QeeGood (1213)
• Sweden
14 Apr 11
Stress is an important factor. Physical exercises and have an average weight can be beneficial for getting pregnant. I do wish you the very best to have the child/children you desire.
takenbyrey29
@takenbyrey29 (51)
• Philippines
14 Apr 11
Right now, I am not working to avoid stress in work. I hope that with enough rest, I can have a baby. thanks
Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
13 Apr 11
I know someone who are married for 5 years too and still no kid. Then one day they decided to adopt a baby and months after they've adopted a baby the wife conceive. They are very happy and loved the adopted baby more,as they consider the adopted baby as an angel in disguise. Have a great day and welcome to mylot
maximax8
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
13 Apr 11
Isn't that funny that the lady got pregnant after the couple adopted a baby. The adopted baby really was an angel in disguise. Now that couple must be very happy indeed. It just goes to show stress can prevent a lady getting pregnant she got her dream and then was relaxed enough to get pregnant.
takenbyrey29
@takenbyrey29 (51)
• Philippines
14 Apr 11
yeah, I know someone also who has same experience in adopting a baby. but as of now, my husband is not yet ready for adopting a baby. he said, we'll just have to try and try...
uath13
@uath13 (8192)
• United States
13 Apr 11
Consider yourself lucky. You've been given time to prepare both financially & emotionally. Kids are an ENORMOUS drain on both & can destroy an unprepared couple.
takenbyrey29
@takenbyrey29 (51)
• Philippines
14 Apr 11
Yeah, right, that's why I'm thinking about God's plan for me, His perfect plan on His perfect time...
aerous
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
14 Apr 11
Since your OBGyne confirmed your fine, all you have to do is to wait at the same time spent more time with your husband.I had a close friend too,after 10yrs of their marriage when they have their first baby boy, a year later it conceived again....now they got two boys, both husband and wife nearly lost hope by the time because they are already both 39yrs old.At the end they still got two healthy kids.