how do u get someones attention ?

United States
April 15, 2011 12:15pm CST
how do u get someones attention ? so my last discussion here was about what you think turns you on to the other one so this one is about how you deal with it i mean like when u are attracted to someone and u want him\her to notice you what do you do how do you get his\her attention ?? so tell me what do you do in this kind of situation ?
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@misc11 (384)
• United States
15 Apr 11
I would say walk up to the person and have a conversation. You have nothing to lose if the person doesn't even notice you. Ask the person to have a drink after work so you can have a real conversation and see if there is any chemistry there. I would also say to always dress nice and look good when you know you will see this person. Physical attraction is always one of the first things people notice. Being upfront and walking up to the person looking good and feeling confident has worked for me in the past. Even if this isn't characteristic of you to be so bold...if you just do it and act confident, confidence will follow you and the other person won't know you are nervous inside.
@Kirinx (1693)
• United States
23 Apr 11
hehe thats one of the best ways.
15 Apr 11
I'd rather be myself.. it's best to let someone notice you for being who you are.
@Kirinx (1693)
• United States
23 Apr 11
in the world of today where nutty ppl are.i understand that feeling
@thezone (9451)
• Ireland
23 Apr 11
HEY YOU
@Kirinx (1693)
• United States
23 Apr 11
Simple just follow these simple steps and you will get someone's attention. step 1- Say hi to the person step 2- The next time you see the person grab a pie and slap it in the face of the person you are interested in. Step 3. If step 2 is to awkard dress up in all black with a hooded outfit and pretend to rob/assault them.Then rip off your hood and be like "I love you where the heck have you been all my life" Step 4. If they dont die from fright its all good. LOL only follow step 1. hahaha
@lyamsitiy (104)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
If we belong to the same group of friends then i usually glance at his side often and smile at him. And if its a close group then i talk to him often just to start a conversation and eventually when all goes home the conversation will be continued through text then just hope that he'll like you as a person. In parties it really help a lot if your having fun, and enjoying the moment but not to much that you end up drunk. Just project a confidence, some people find it sexy and appealing if you know how to carry yourself well.
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
16 Apr 11
You can try so many ways to get someone's attention to notice you. In the end, it has to be your way of being yourself that really gets someone's attention your way. the person you are inside is what will keep someone's attention. It's not all about the package you display.
• India
15 Apr 11
As for me attention seeking is a very bad habbit and usually its a turn off.If you are trying to get someone's attention it means you are not being yourself and giving a false impression of youself.By doing so even if you succeed in getting the desired attention and get into a relationship usully you will end up heart broken.So try to be yourself nd if you have the charismathen you can be the centre of attention in a crowd.Leave a crowd with your own personal traits if someone is meant for you he definitely will ge drawn to you without you ven trying anything.
• United States
15 Apr 11
in order to get someones attention you must just be yourself eventually they will come around and talk to you and the way you look at yourself is the way everybody whoses around you will see how you are.....showing your true feelings comes from deep within yourself not just whos around you but how you figure you should be......honesty is not always the best policy but atleast you would know the truth...
@Dominique25 (9475)
• United States
15 Apr 11
I think for me personally I would try to arrange for us to spend some time together. First I would check to make sure that he is not in a relationship with someone else. Then ask if he would be interested in going out on a date. This i would do if it seems like the person doesn't know that i'm interested or that i really exist yet. Then if he agrees I would of course get all dolled up for the event.
@grace24 (1050)
• Philippines
15 Apr 11
There are so many things that u can do, if u want to get the attention of the guy or girl. First, you must know the things that can make him attract, then try doing these things. Try to impress him with your charming personality, be friendly. Try to become friends with her.