Experiences from your past partner, makes you ready to your true love

Philippines
April 21, 2011 6:06am CST
As we grow up, many people coming up into our life, experience a lot of things from them, shared pain to them, love them so badly, care for them and many more but after that for some reason you broke up with him/her. Have you ever realize why this people coming up into your life and love you then hurt you? :( I have been into past relationship and i know how it feels to feel pain, being cheated and etc. But one thing i realize why this people coming to my life and give me such pain, hurt me. As I talk to my sister this is what she said: " People comes in our life and hurt you, cheated you and etc. because that is their role in your life. They make you ready and they make you stronger when your true love comes, when that right person comes. And in the other hand it is also the same to that right person for you. So it is not just you who will feel those pain. When you failed in your relationship then you will learned from it and when there is another person come be a better person who knows he/she is the right one. " Happy Mylotting guys..;)
3 responses
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
Yes i think that can be the case. Its like the song bless the broken road by the rascal flatts. That we ought to meet the People we have met in our lives to lead us to where our current love is.
@SjanineS (30)
• South Africa
21 Apr 11
I agree with your sister.. it`s all a learning curve and makes us stronger...helps us to know exactly what we want and don`t want in a relationship and not settle for anything less.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
21 Apr 11
hello, Yes, In every relationship there is always something that will hurt you because he/she not really for you. But if you hurt it is natural because you just loved one wrong person maybe there is someone out there waiting and deserves you more, at least you learned that it is not the end of the world when he/she gone in your life. yes, it makes us more stronger and a better person. We learned lot of things, on how to handle some relationship and how to choose the right one. right? good luck to us!