Ladies, what makes you feel sexy?

United States
April 21, 2011 10:36pm CST
For years, I struggled with my image. Part of this was a result of dating shallow men and part of it was due to being uncomfortable in my own skin. Finally, I've come to accept me for me and I feel great. I walk with my head high and have a walk that exudes confidence because I am comfortable being me. My fellow ladies, who, what, and when do you feel sexy? How do you do it?
5 responses
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
24 Apr 11
Hello reneef! Welcome here! Is that you on your avatar 'cause if it's you,I could say you're already sexy! Honestly reneef,I'm not sexy,lol! I hate my big tummy,grrrr!!! I got it when I got pregnant and it's really hard to make it slim again,huhu! But you know what..I still feel sexy 'cause my hubby makes me feel I'm sexy,lol! He'd always say it's fine with him if I have big tummy 'cause he says it's normal for a mom already,lol! And I feel sexy when he makes love with me,you know! Haha,sorry if I'm being frank! So it's because of my husband why I feel sexy reneef,hehe! I guess I have nothing to be despearate of when it comes to my tummy. See yah! Enjoy mylotting!
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
A lot of things can make me feel sexy... it usually starts with my underwear, haha. Believe me, if I wear something sexy and comfortable, then I feel good about myself and that just translates to what I wear on the outside. Also, I feel sexy when my boyf compliments me. Finally, wearing make up makes me feel sexy! It helps to unleash that fiery attitude inside of me!
• India
22 Apr 11
Hello reneef79, welcome to mylot :) You have exactly worded my feelings too! Just being good to look or have a great figure or being able to wear classy and expensive clothes is not enough! The way we carry ourselves with our head held high and plenty of self confidence is a much better head turner than looking good! Whenever I have the opportunity to do something good that satisfies my mind and soul, whenver I am feeling good about the blessings that I have received, I feel good and that, in my opinion is sexy for me!
@locakai (166)
• United States
22 Apr 11
Knowing that I take care of myself, to know myself, and love myself. And that brings out the passionate beautiful person I am. That gives me the confidence to look in the mirror and thank God, for blessing me, I may not be a size 0, but as long as I respect and love myself, then people will see it. My family, friends, and my husband, love and respect me is because I had to learn to love and accept myself as God sees me. I'm not uncomfortable in my own skin, why should anyone, loose the inserurity, accept that you are beautiful no matter what. Don't let others tell you how you should look or feel, find your own niche of comfortably and if no one likes it, then own it.
• India
22 Apr 11
i reneef I admire u