female having lots of male friends

@acey76 (1278)
Philippines
April 23, 2011 8:43pm CST
Have you encountered this? Female having lots of guy friends over her girl friends what is your view regarding this? Please share.
10 responses
• Argentina
24 Apr 11
I am a girl and I have more male friends than female friends. Even, my best friend is a guy. I think that guys are best friends than woman, no envy, no boyfriends stolen, no look copy cat and all those problems than you usually have with a female friend. My guy best friend can understand me better than most of my females friends, I can't talk about many things with him and best of all, he doesn't judge me like a girl could do. Let's be honest, a man is always a better friend.
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@thezone (9452)
• Ireland
24 Apr 11
Don't see a problem. do you ?
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@acey76 (1278)
• Philippines
24 Apr 11
well, yeah but to many especially for conservative people they tend to see the girl as a flirt
@moirai (1412)
• Philippines
24 Apr 11
Hello, acey76! =) I see nothing wrong with a girl having a lot of guy friends. And while we're on the subject, I also see nothing wrong with a guy having a lot of female friends. =P To tell you frankly, I quite enjoy talking with guys and being friends with them. It gives me another perspective, an idea of how guys think. =P I don't have a brother, I wish I had one... Male cousins are there but we rarely see or talk to each other. So male friends make up for that. Haha. =P Now on the perception of being a flirt... being friendly with guys doesn't automatically mean a girl is flirting with them... If there are people who think that way, even if there's no reason to, then it's a wrong perception, and it's a bit unfair... Have a nice day! =)
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@obe212003 (2302)
• Philippines
24 Apr 11
yes actually my ex girlfriend, I think a girl like them are flirts who loved to hang out with guys. Majority of the girls like to be attracted by guys, because It make them comfortable and confidence for their selves.
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• Philippines
24 Apr 11
hello acey, There is nothing wrong having a lot of males friends it can be vice versa also Unless you put malice on it it depends how that girl treat her male friends but i don't see anything wrong about it have a great sunday!
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@tiina05 (2319)
• Philippines
24 Apr 11
hello, Yes, I have encountered this kind of girl. why? Is that an issue? Well, for me not because it is normal, but actually it depends on the girl is she just friendly than boys I understand that, maybe she is more comfortable in guys friends than girls. right?
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• United States
24 Apr 11
Personally, I've had many female friends over the years and none were expected in my bed, so from that light I think nothing but 'hail friendship'.
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@asliah (11149)
• Philippines
4 May 11
hi, yeah,you're right,that female have a lot of guy friends,but still it depend upon the personality of the female,sometimes they are more comfortable to be friends with guy than female maybe to avoid comparison to other female friends.even my sister would rather choose to be friend with guys.
@shibham (17025)
• India
25 Apr 11
And vise versa.
25 Apr 11
When I was young, I had more girl friends. As I grew up, I found I had more in common with males. I was raised with 3 brothers, all with a passion with football, basketball, baseball, hockey... now I am a sport freak! A lot of women do not get into that, so I am better able to associate with men on that aspect. Plus, no gossip or drama!!!!