It says in James 4 King James bible to watch what you say!

@free_man (7330)
United States
April 24, 2011 6:08pm CST
I am the worlds worst at speaking my tounge most of the time I try to think before I speak. But sometimes I just can't and don't. I am sure that some of you on here have seen me speak my peace. And if I offended any of you I am so sorry for that. Sometimes I forget that we are not all close related friends, neighbors as you will. Sometimes I forget that on the other end of the discussion is a real human that I am speaking to. And for this I do say I am so sorry for being me rude crude and just plain truthful. I will try my best not to offend any one. But to those that were on my friends list if I offended you I am sorry for that.
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
26 Apr 11
"To err is human; to forgive is divine". It is in our own interest really that we watch what we say specially in a virtual world like myLot. Users will stay away from those who hurt them, although that user may be good at heart but here one does not have an opportunity to know the real user and the user's heart. So better safe than sorry?
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
26 Apr 11
There is one point I wish to clarify and that is this is a discussion site and we are supposed to express our truthful opinions and if you feel that you will hurt someone then it is better that you skip that discussion.
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
26 Apr 11
Hi Allknowing that is why I wrote this post to say to all that I am sorry for sticking my foot in my mouth. I try to be safe and not say anything to hurt anyones feelings but let's face it is is getting time that we all learn the truth of Gods word.
@free_man (7330)
• United States
19 May 11
Hi Allknowing. I don't know why I said something to hurt someone I don't know if I did. I try my best not to hurt anyones feelings. Thank you for your response.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
5 May 11
hi, no one is perfect and everyone could offend somebody sometimes its the intention but still offended,we realize at the end that we offend someone after we tell what we want to say.sometimes it pushes by the angry we feel inside.
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
19 May 11
Hi Asliah. Your right we all say things we don't mean to hurt anyone. I am trying my best to do what is right in Gods eyes. And when I see someone thinking that they are going to fly away I get all sick inside. We won't fly away the Lord is coming back to this earth to make it HIS kingdom why would anyone want to fly away. I am hurt by these false teachers of Gods word. I know that some of us won't know the truth till it is too late. But it says in the bible when the anti christ comes and fools some when the true Christ comes some will be praying for mountians fall on them because they see they have been fooled all their lives by false teachings. http://www.shepherdschapel.com/index.htm
@GardenGerty (157596)
• United States
26 Apr 11
I try not to offend, but I try to be honest as well. If I am sure I cannot be kind, I pass on by. Some things I see just are not right, but that does not necessarily make me right either.It is hard, sometimes, to understand our online friends. On the other hand, sometimes some people are very easy to offend in person as well.
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
26 Apr 11
Hi GG. I try not to offend either but sometimes I do it not realizing that the person I am speaking to may be timid. Me on the other hand don't know how to be timid when it comes to truth. Truth is truth and if it hurts I am so sorry I would rather offend someone then to let them think that they are going to fly away. No where in the bible does it say we will fly away. It does say that God is against those that teach HIS children to fly instead of reaching for Gods out reached hands. Not exactlly how it is worded but you get the jest of what I am saying I hope.
@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
25 Apr 11
Truth always hurts. But that truth better be spoken, lest we allow others continue to deceive themselves. I'd rather you tell me I have booger on my nostrils, or dews on my eyes, or odor on my pits, than allow others to secretly laugh at me...
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
25 Apr 11
Hi Eileenleyva. I have told strangers when there was something that would embarrass me if it was me. I am like that too I would rather you tell me the truth then let me be embarrassed about something that everyone see's. Truth does hurt but rather be hurt then go straight to hell. Someone thought they were going to fly away and not face the anti christ. I know we are going to be here when the anti christ comes and just trying to keep everyone out of the anti christ's arms. Trying to help people get to know that Christ don't come till the seventh trump.
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25 Apr 11
It is good for you humbling yourself because that is also one of God's command. Sometimes we are still human to commit mistakes right! but when we read the word of God it gives us wisdom knowing what is right and wrong and one of them is to humble yourself. I believe that you will guard your tongue from now on,now that you have read the Bible.
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
25 Apr 11
Hi Heavenrenz and welcome to my lot. I have read the bible many many times. But sometimes I let my tounge get bigger then I need to. I guess it is because I know that the bible don't say that we will fly away it says we are here to stand before the anti christ and let the Holy Spirit speak through us. I just hope and pray I didn't guide any one to the wrong side by opening my big mouth and laughing about someone thinking we will fly away.
• Canada
28 Apr 11
Words are powerful my friend, It can hurt and ruin a man for life.
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
28 Apr 11
Hi Hypocrite_hater and welcome to my lot. Yes I know they can hurt and I am sorry if I hurt anyones feelings but I would rather let everyone know that the false christ comes first so that they are not fooled by him. Christ comes at the seventh trump not until the anti christ comes claimbing to be christ and it says in the bible the whole world will follow after him. Then when they find out that he isn't the true christ they will be praying for the mountians to fall on them for not realizing he is the fake. I would rather hurt someones feelings then to see them on the path way to hell. Thanks for the input my friend.
• United States
25 Apr 11
That's yet another example of the Bible's wisdom that God has gifted to us so that we may live life's everyday moments with success and just all around positivity: happiness, common sense, intelligence, wisdom, and so forth...
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
25 Apr 11
Hi Phr4nkr4wk5 and welcome to my lot. It teaches us to be wise and only speak with dignity and respect to each other. But sometimes I stick my foot in my mouth and say things I shouldn't have said. None of us are prefect there was only one that was prefect and look what us humans allowed to happen to HIM we hung HIM on a cross for our sins. Thank you for sharing my friend.