what do you think of marriage?

China
April 25, 2011 10:03am CST
some people say marriage is the tomb of love,but for me, i don't think so.in my opinion,marriage is the sublimation of love,marriage can not happen untill love reachs a cetain level.when each other 's love is not deep enough ,they won't get marry.For me,marriage also means building a new family ,when two people fall in love,there is only kind of love in it,but marriage has two kinds when they have baby.what is your opinion?
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8 responses
• India
26 Apr 11
I am married since 2008 and now I am very happy so marriage is most important part in everyone's life after marriage my leaving standard has been changed. My wife decide every day what should I wear and also where should I go. But although I am happy because I love my wife most. What should she wear I decide everyday ok so dedication should be from both side then you will find that life is so beautiful.
• China
6 May 11
agree with you, wish you and your wife happy forever
@dodo19 (47133)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
25 Apr 11
I agree with you. I don't think that marriage is the tomb of love or anything. Although I don't think that marriage is necessary, I still think that weddings and marriage is still something special, just like long term relationships and such. It's something that is nice to see.
• China
6 May 11
when i saw the live show of royal wedding between prince william and kate,i firmly believe marriage is a kind of happiness.i wish them happy forever
@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
25 Apr 11
For me it's not necessary. I'm not married and never planned to get married. I like my freedom. I want to be able to do what I want, when I want and not have to worry about another person. If I decide I want to pick up and move across the country tomorrow I want to be able to do that without a second thought. I don't want to be restricted in my life. I don't have a need for it. I am independent and make my own money and take care of myself. Maybe it's because I am the child of divorce and I have never really had any good role models of a happy marriage not from my parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, siblings, cousins. I don't know anyone in my family that have had a good marriage. I have uncles who have been married 50 years but they are miserable and still talk about leaving every week. Just had a close cousin get a nasty divorce. His sister wants to divorce her husband but she is stuck because she has two kids, a low paying job and doesn't want to have to rely on child support so she is staying for now but she'd been wanting to divorce for several years. I don't see the point of getting married for myself.
• China
2 May 11
but i think you can not have the true feeling without having a try by yourself,maybe your family or relatives ' example give you a not good impression of marriage,however ,in my opinion,only you must experience the things by yourself,you can realize it,maybe after you have experienced it, you will have different feeling ,lol,anyway,everybody have different ideas,thank you for your share
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
25 Apr 11
I think of marriage as the bond of love and trust that exist between teo people who commit to a future of life spent together. Marrisge is built on the foundation of relationship we give to it. what we give to marriage is also what we take from it. it can be a romantic journey if the one we love shares the same ideas.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
26 Apr 11
I think when there is not love enough that anything can be a tomb of love. If two people really love each other, being together might have its boring days or being a little sick of the company, like it happens with for example a person with this persons' parents, brothers, but it can never end love. Thank God! I think this is the typical saying of people who actually wants to have fun. They miss the freedom, not that intimacy can kill anything. Intimacy issues means someone is not mature and needs to be single for now, that this person needs one thing: to have lots of fun! And there's nothing wrong with that while there's also not cheating.
@akr123 (2)
• United States
26 Apr 11
Marriage is wonderful. I would love to get married someday. Everything about marriage and getting married is something I would love to experience. I think that if you love someone and you don't want to be with anyone else then it would be a waste of time not to get married. It's a lot better than waiting around for many many years until the marriage thoughts completely fade away. If I did that then I know I would truly regret it. Marriage has more gains than losses. And with the more love your relationship has, there won't be any losses. Just a wonderful life with the one you love.
@naija4real (1291)
25 Apr 11
Marriage is the union of a man and woman in a matrimonial relation divinely ordained by God. However,the world has extended this meaning a little further.Instead of a union of man and a woman, we now have gay and lesbian marriage.A man marry a man ( Singer Elton John and his male wife ) We equally have women marrying women. However, I do not want to drag this topic from the main points you want answers. But I know that when a man marries a woman it is to promote happiness,increase the human population and ensure man existences on earth,etc However, marriage is not completely a rosy affairs. there are bound to be difficult moment. That is why during the marriage vow, couple vows in sickness and in health,for better for worst. Marriage too has cultural aspects. Many cultures around the world has their tradional way of organzing marriage. To your question, Marriage starts with a man dating a woman. They use this period to study each other. If they share things in common and they believe they can live together. They go and get weded and they start having children.
• United States
25 Apr 11
Marriage is the right choice for two people who love each other and believe they can spend the rest of their lives together.