Is there such thing as perfect marriage?

@whengcat (1457)
Philippines
May 1, 2011 9:31pm CST
What do you think guys, is there really such a thing? Can you say that you're in one and what makes you say so?
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17 responses
@masang (295)
• Philippines
10 May 11
There's no such thing as perfect in this world even marriage. Even two people who love each other encounter so many trails in their married life. There's no such thing as perfect marriage but only marriage who becomes stronger and lasts longer through the test of time.
• Philippines
10 May 11
There is no such perfect marriage in this world nor perfect couple. All things must be worked hard in order to survive the challenges of life. Marriage should be taken care of by two person living under one roof. Prayers is a must.
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@galileo2008 (1141)
• Philippines
6 May 11
I know there's a perfect wedding, but I have not encounter a couple having a perfect marriage. No matter how perfect the couple look good together, they will be an instance wherein they will definitely argue for something, or probably one of them will get bored of living in a perfect life, with a perfect wife/husband. I don't know, that's how I see it though.
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@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
2 May 11
I am married and base on my experience, there is no such thing as perfect marriage. HOw can you qualify a marriage as perfect? No fight, no problems? TRhat is not perfect, still because a marriage like that will not teach you to learn and grow. Often arguing or sometimes arguing? Well, arguments means you are not in a perfect situation either. So how? We can not search for a perfect marriage since we as individuals has complex personality and the other person might disagree with what we think or say or feel about things. No, there is no such thing as perfect.
• Bahrain
2 May 11
Hi there! There's no such thing as perfect in this world.. The always constant is change. We all change, feelings changes. It depends on how you will handle the relationship and how you will manage your problems as couples. Marriage is a big responsibility, ups and downs will come that will causes loose and less bond or stronger more intact and intimate relationship. Being perfect is not the basis of "Perfect Marriage", it really depends on both of you moving forward with your life together.
@blogger01 (124)
• Philippines
2 May 11
For me, there's no such thing as perfect marriage or perfect relation relationship.. but you can be perfect for each other. We can't reach perfection. However, we can just accept imperfection and do the best to keep the relationship peaceful and happy.
@ann815 (54)
• Philippines
2 May 11
for me there is no such thing as a perfect marriage. but the couple can work to have a wonderful relationship. it should be a work in progress to keep the relationship exciting. never allow children, bills and responsibilities dampen the fire that ignited the partnership in the beginning. keep the flame alive by having alone time with your partner on a regular basis. never feel guilty leaving children with the sitter or your parents once in a while and try to re-enact some adventures you and your spouse used to do when you were still dating. :)
@SangsTurks (1444)
• India
2 May 11
I think, it is what you make of a marriage that does the wonders. if two people don't help eachother to make a marriage perfect, it will not be perfect. But, if two people try to sort things and compromise, the marriage would definately work. I don't think mine is perfect because i have some issues with stubborness which dosn't help, none the less i do not want to solve certain thing.
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@sender621 (14894)
• United States
2 May 11
I don't think thaa any marriage can be considered to be a perfect one. All marriages will have their share of joys, concerns and trials. how we handle these things together with our partner is what we should base a marriage on.
@chhetp1 (467)
• India
2 May 11
No relation could be a perfect relationship and the marriage is no exception. I think without the usual highs and lows the marriage relationship will be dull. There was a time when wives would seldom express their feeling to the husbands, or the husbands will rarely show the emotions. Times are changed now and we must keep thinking to make the partner's life more enjoyable and pleasurable. Without the flaws in any relation there would be only ties and not a relationship.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
2 May 11
If the definition of a perfect marriage, is a marriage wherein the couple don't fight at all, then definitely , there is no perfect marriage. For a husband and a wife, there is the tendency to disagree on things. This being so, because a male sometimes think and act differently than a female pertaining to problem solving. So sometimes, they clash about some things being done. In my opinion , ours is not a perfect marriage, because i for one, wouldn't just agree with my husband if i think it is not to my liking. I will voice out what i like and we should compromise, not just obey him , so that we will not quarrel.
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@Zer0Stats (1147)
• India
2 May 11
There's no such thing as perfection anywhere anytime any place.However,I think there can be awesome marriages! These marriages exist when two people truly love each other,are best friends,have good communication,common interests and goals,and REAL commitment.
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@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
2 May 11
if your definition of perfect marriage is when a couple is a capable of saving their relationship despite the trials, when they are both open to each other about accepting ones mistakes, and if they're capable of staying faithful and strong despite the troubles this world has to offer... then there's a possibility that there is a perfect marriage. :)
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2 May 11
There is no such thing as perfect marriage, every person has their own flaws and most couples tend to clash because of their differences however those are normal. And those who are planning to get married expect the unexpected, prepare yourself and be understanding and patient to keep their relationship strong and be together for the rest of their lives.
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@celticeagle (159289)
• Boise, Idaho
2 May 11
That would depend on what two people want from the marriage. If they are well suited to one another, if they have the same likes and dislikes. Everything would have to fall into place perfectly. I think for the most part this would be next to impossible. I can see some very good marriages but not perfect.
• United States
2 May 11
I think because there is no such thing as a perfect person to begin with that it is not possible to have a perfect marriage. Also it depends on what the definition of perfect can be for one another. For instance although I am not married, and do live with a wonderful man who is very caring, trusting, well the whole package for me. There are times he does do a thing here and there that I personally cannot consider to be impeccably perfect. Although I must admit he is is the perfect guy for me, and has been for almost 7 years now.
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@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
23 Mar 12
I think there is no perfect marriage because i think there is no couple that not having an argument and having an argument is a bad thing in a relationship. There's a relationship that last for a life time but there are still some problem that they encounter in there life of being married. I'm also a married person, i'm happy in my relationship but i can't still say that i got i perfect marriage because there are still a time that we can't do our responsibilities very well because of some reason and sometimes we still having misunderstanding. We are happy in our love life even we are not perfect.