Have you ever dated your siblings ex or even current gf/bf?

United States
May 13, 2011 8:10pm CST
I was watching Jerry Springer with my boyfriend today, we usually don't because it's just *OMG shocking stories*, today's topic was a lady whose sister is sleeping with her FIANCE. Seriously? Why would you do that to your sister? Sleeping around with your siblings FIANCE. He's like "almost family" and it wasn't just one time- it was numerous times. That's just gross in both point of views. In the fiances point of view too cause he's sleeping with his fiancees sibling who would be family if they get married. Have you ever dated your siblings ex? Would you feel weird? Have you ever seen a scenario like this before?
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• Portugal
14 May 11
well i wouldnt do that to my sisters. i mean if is your sister ex and you fell for him you could tell her and be with him. wouldnt be your fault. but date her current bf? that is a disrespect to your sister. if she is with him how could do that? anyway im happy bcs i wouldnt do that to any of them^^ and yes i heard stories like this before^^
• United States
14 May 11
Yeah but either way, I wouldn't date sister's ex or current! I have had stories like this too its insane, lol!
@GemmaR (8517)
14 May 11
I wouldn't do that. I know how hurtful it can be to lose someone you love, and for my sibling to then begin a relationship with them would be so hurtful to me I can't even describe it. There's just some things that you shouldn't do in your life, and forming a relationship with your sibling's ex is one of those things that you should never do. I would feel very betrayed if this happened to me, so therefore I wouldn't do it to anyone else.
• United States
14 May 11
Yeah it is something that shouldn't happen, that's why it was on Jerry Springer, lol! I can never do this as well. Thanks for sharing.
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
10 Jun 11
No, I never dated my sister's ex or current boyfriend/spouse. Just like she never dated mine. The closest we ever got was both of us eyeing the same guy around the same time...although we didn't really know it back then. Well, I kind of had a suspicion, but she never told me. But in my defense I did see him first! LOL And lucky for me he wasn't interested in my sister...otherwise I never would have gotten together with him. It would have just felt too weird to me. I haven't actually seen it before, at least not personally, but I have heard about it before (other than on Jerry Springer, that is.) A friend of mine and one of her sisters dated the same guy years ago. Actually there were 2 guys. They happened to be brothers. And each of the sisters dated each of the brothers at one time or another...though never at the same time...at least not that I know of anyway. I always thought that was strange...not to mention confusing. But they never seemed to have a problem with it. Happy mylotting!
@clocks123 (1225)
• United States
14 May 11
hello. personally, i would not date my siblings ex or even a friend's ex. yes, it would feel very weird. i would not want to do this to them at all. it is good to find your own date without any ex's in the picture. the best to you
• United States
14 May 11
@clocks123- Yeah, I wouldn't either, it would be very awkward! @rayann0- Yup, I agree too!
• Philippines
14 May 11
Huh? Okay seriously, I have not done something like that. I have known friends that have done this thing, but not me... family feelings and "what they gonna say" run deep on us. Anyway, relevant to culture, upbringing, social status and family traditions, anybody might have done that. It really depends though. Of course, For me I will be in a difficult situation when my sibling will feel a little off towards me if they learn that I have done this. So, I have not done this since family opinions matters to me. As for general notion for this situation to happen, it really depends gal...
• United States
14 May 11
Yeah, I would never do such a thing as well... I cannot imagine it but I have known others as well (it's a gross, stupid thing to do).. And, family is special to me as well, thanks for sharing!
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
30 May 11
hi, i never seen that kind of scenario but maybe that also happen in reality,we just dont know only,but in my family that's not happening.its such a weird thing.
• United States
14 May 11
This sort of activity or action whichever it is called, lol is a taboo with me and most people I know. We do not even date a friends ex. I would feel way too awkard to say the least and somehow would feel that I was disloyal to my sister and or friend if it was an ex of a friend. I have seen a scenario where the Aunt of a friend of mine, well her Aunt and my friends husband now live together and have children together. Odd to say the least! They moved away for a few years but are around now.