if you are a rich parent and your child wants to be a singer but she cant sing

Calgary, Alberta
May 14, 2011 10:10am CST
Lets say you are a very wealthy person, and you have have a 12 year old daughter or maybe son, Your child wanted to be a singer, but here is the catch, your child cant sing to save his or her life. Then this child of yours wanted to produce an album, make a music video of them and launch them as a singer... It becoming a trend now in the US....A rich kid wants to be a singer, so they will make their parents produce them an album... If your child wants to be a singer but she/he cant sing, Would you be supportive of their dream?
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@mspitot (3824)
• Philippines
31 May 11
If I were a parent of that, I will let her have vocal lessons and workshops but I'll tell her her problem in a nice way.
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@mspitot (3824)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
Well...I won't let her do that. She said she wants to be a singer so she has to sing. I will let her see the bad things thrown at Ke$ha because of her style.
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@mspitot (3824)
• Philippines
2 Jun 11
Ke$ha is worse than Rebbecca....
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• Calgary, Alberta
31 May 11
What what will you do if your daughter said she doesn't want voice lessons because there is autotune and she wants to be like her idol Ke$ha Who is known for using autotune because can't sing.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
14 May 11
I would, but would insist that she takes lessons. Then when the teacher tells her she cannot sing unless she works really hartd, and has to give up seeing her friends, missing out on the fun, she will give up her dream.
• Calgary, Alberta
14 May 11
so you wont just release an album when they were not ready? You would like to to learn how to sing first before letting her pursue a career instead of making things quick with the help of auto tune and other vocal special effects?
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
15 May 11
I can think of the people suffering and holding their ears if they go ahead and make a album before they can sing. I also doubt that you two know of any rich parents. I also resent when someone assumes that if I were poor, I would force my childrd to take singing lessons even if he has to sweep up the floor of the studio to do so, but if I were rich, I would let him make an album without training.
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• Calgary, Alberta
16 May 11
The biggest example of those rich parents will be Will Smith.... His daughter cant sing but he produced her an album with songs that are kinda not age appropriate. Then there is Rebbecca Black who is getting a hype now.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
23 May 11
No, as much as I want to support his or her dream, he or she has to face the truth now- or she/he well just get hurt..like what Rebecca Black is suffering now. I am sure he/she'll find another talent- everyone has something they're good at..
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• Philippines
25 May 11
yes, she should just stick to school fr now- maybe she would discover her other talents.. There are those who are good in academics and singing and dancing though- very talented.
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• Calgary, Alberta
25 May 11
As they say you cannot have everythign and this world is unfair. Talentless people who will dare to have a career on field they have no talent too must have a heart and skin of steel because its going to hurt badly, emotionally.
• Calgary, Alberta
24 May 11
I kinda remember a child psychologist saying if a child is really really weak academically you should find their talent. Its kinda the reversal of the situation since Rebbeca Black is said to be a consistent hon or student. so she should stick with school.
@moirai (2836)
• Philippines
14 May 11
Hmm... interesting question... what to do what to do...? Well... I suppose I can get her (or him) into some voice lessons to begin with. If there is improvement there, then maybe there is a chance to pursue the dream. However, if even after some training and such, there is no improvement and it seems that attempts will be futile, then best have a talk with the child and encourage her to try something else that she might be good at. The thing is, you see, if I let her pursue this, I will only be setting her up for disappointment. People will only laugh at her, or cringe whenever they hear her. Would she like that? Would that make her happy? I hope that I'm a good enough parent to raise a child to be not bratty enough not to understand this. =P
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• Calgary, Alberta
15 May 11
I wonder what is the right way of raising a child if you are rich, since the biggest down side of a being rich is that your child might end up as a spoiled bratt who is lazy and just want everything to be easy. i think this became a trend since rich kids want to have the fame instantly without any efforts.
• Calgary, Alberta
22 May 11
That might do, Kinds must work for everythign they wanted. Just because their rich it doesn't mean they must have short cuts. I know someone who is raised from a rich family but she does house hold chores. her parents never hired maids because they want them to learn how to be dependent and learn how to take care of them selves. all of them are all hardworks and they dont act spoiled. It sounds easy but its n ot since most rich kids ended up being spoiled.
@moirai (2836)
• Philippines
16 May 11
Hmm... well, maybe it's a little harder for rich parents to teach their children this because money is not a problem for them. But if somehow they are able to instill in their children the value of hard work, diligence, discipline, etc... If they are able to show their children the reality that there are people around them who are not as fortunate as they are... If they are able to teach their children that they should value what they have and not take it for granted... I don't think that's impossible. Hard, maybe, but not impossible. Idea: I wonder if a reward system would be ok? For example, instead of just buying your kids anything they want, give them as rewards... when they do good in school, when they show initiative in helping with housework, when they avoid fighting with their siblings, etc... And you don't have to be super strict either. Being reasonable is just right, I think...
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@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
31 May 11
Yep I would support my child's dream. But not jut with money. I'll ask my kid to join music and dance school whether he/she likes it or not. And I feel singing is something that gets better with practice and time. So yeah
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• Calgary, Alberta
31 May 11
You want let her go for shortcuts, you rather have her work work for if. Aside from singing lessons I think a child must wait to grow up before trying them was singing career. So they will have the maturity to handle criticism
• Calgary, Alberta
2 Jun 11
oops I have a typo, I said wont and not want but my voice recognition software is not very accurate. I'm using one because my keyboard is broken and I have no more plans of buying a new one. I think if I'm a parent, I wont let a little kid pursue a recording career. If they want recording career, the need to practice and train until they were 18
• South Korea
1 Jun 11
That's not a shortcut. I bet that's the best way by making her join some music school and dance school. If that's her dream I'll support her 100%. In my country we have a lot of child actors and singers and they seem to be doing pretty fine. I mean I know how it feels if parents don't agree to what you wanna do!!
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• Indonesia
25 May 11
I personally think that she should take a course to singing...
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• Calgary, Alberta
27 May 11
I wonder why so many of those rich parents were way too supportive to their kid's delusions, look at the cyber bullying Rebbeca Black, Willow Smith and Jenna rose are having now.
• Calgary, Alberta
25 May 11
Lessons would work if she will be dedicated and passionate.
• Indonesia
25 May 11
I think it not only for the dedicated and passionate ones, the person who cannot to singing need this. I don't care if my daughter learn slowly. But I want to make her dream become a reality.
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@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
3 Jun 11
Personally this is something I can never relate with. Why would some parent try and help their child get an Album cut if their child cannot really sing? What good will that do anyways? If I had a child who was interested in Singing, and $$ was no object, but knew they could not sing, I would try and encourage them to find something else that would be of help for them, or like others have said find them a voice coach who can try them out and see if their is hope. Personally why allow a child to do something to often be only let down in the end?
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• Calgary, Alberta
6 Jun 11
There are many parents thought that supported child's dream regardless of talent is their best way to show love their beloved children. So there are companies like Arc music factory that seem this as an opportunity to make money from those parents. It's kind of like a vanity press. Maybe they think money can buy everything so they saw that as a solution to the situation their kids are going through.Or parents will just give in if their kids cried and winds a lot about how that they want to have the dream of being a star
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
13 Aug 11
I'd arrange for an unfortunate and completely random throat assault to occur and then pay off a Doctor to state that to sing again would be life threatening to them..... Nah, that probably wouldn't be a very nice thing to do! I would be honest with my child about their own talent and then I'd suggest they get involved with singing in some other way. Maybe they could be come an Agent for singing superstars! I'd support them as much as I could on that front. All in all though, I think we owe it to our children to be truthful because to not be in an instance like this could embarrass them later on.
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• Calgary, Alberta
16 Aug 11
Lol at your first statement, negative youtube comments are indeed life threatening. i get your 2nd statement, its like saying just because you love fashion industry you have to be a model or just because you love football you have to be a football player. there are many areas in different fields.
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
18 Jun 11
WIlliam Hung made a million form sounding totally shite, so I'd say go for it and would support my child all the way! Anyone can sound great with the right production..... Anyways, encouragement is the key and we should never stifle a child's dream. All that said, I'd also try to be realistic with my praise too. There's nothing worse than watching people dumbfounded when they're told by pro's that they can't sing; even though their families have always told them otherwise.
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• Calgary, Alberta
18 Jun 11
by watching the way music industry's current state, a lot of many popular singers today can make the legendary William Hung look so talented and sound like an angel from the heavens above.
• Philippines
14 May 11
any good parent would be supportive of his/her child's dream. a better parent would teach the child how. i haven't heard of natural-born singers. most babies born produce a cry sound, nobody (as far as i know) has ever sang the moment they come out in this world. lol jk singing is an art, a skill, a passion and a calling. talents can be developed. and if a parent can afford it, i don't see why he/she wouldn't be supportive. but parents should teach children positive realism. that being a singer entails more than just producing an album or music video. singers sing. one must be able to sing to be a singer (at least in my book, that's my definition. lol). as a parent, i would be encouraging and supportive, my child's number one fan. but i would also be honest and give him/her positive critique. and take my child to the experts to learn. when he/she is ready, then we produce an album. but not before. and not just on a whim.
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• Calgary, Alberta
15 May 11
How long do you think is the right time of years before a person is going to be ready for a musical career. Something ells me a year is not enough. a person can be a taekwondo black belt in a year but not a good singer for a year. I think its a very long process. lets say your child whine and complained she doesnt want a training, she wants an album right away and your child told you there is autotune and special effects to help her have a music career without the need of those lessons and training.
• Philippines
15 May 11
as much as i would love any child (mine or not), whining and complaining simply won't work. and since i have his/her best interests at heart, we'll go thru with it the right way. superficial is like coated music. won't work either. as for the length of time, it really depends on how passionate the child is to reach her goals. kendall glover, who placed second in live to dance (US version of got to dance UK) was only 10. and winners d'angelo and amanda are almost of the same age too. akai osei was also 10 when he won 2010's got to dance UK. they all got very supportive parents who let them have the proper training even as kids. a year or more in music training before the child is ready... depends. aside from the training i'd make sure that he/she enjoys it too. don't wanna rob him/her of his/her youth.
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• Calgary, Alberta
16 May 11
speaking of rich parents producing album for their kids this song is the second single of one of those kids: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YI3OOrxantg That song and her singing is so bad its entertaining. I know there are parents with kids who are not interested to be singers who were forced to have singing lessons, So I get what you mean by robbing childhood. In case of kids who wants to be in music industry, I will let my kid have vocal training but no album, until they were 18. They have to be kids and not stars.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 May 11
hell cap, Nah,i won't. I have to explain why and what he/she must/should do first before recording. So what if i am rich...still it's my reputation aint that costs the recording and result eh (hehehe) Ugh how i wish i am really that rich to have my kid/s album released anytime
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• Calgary, Alberta
14 May 11
So what are those things that she must do before you will try to invest your risk your cash from producing an album? What would be his/her album about? Have you noticed all that cyber bullying abuse most of those kids are getting now?
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• Calgary, Alberta
15 May 11
Myspace has been always nice to me since it links me easily to my itunes store. i think the next place for cyber bullyign would be facebook twitter and youtube. Mostly youtube,
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
15 May 11
Every parent who has a child has a dream for them! some dreams are ore realistic than others. Just because you may hve the monwy doesn't mean you can realize the dream. If you are rich and your would be singer can not sing, then it is time to give up the dream or get singing lessons to realize that dream one day.
• Calgary, Alberta
16 May 11
Well Ke$ha cant sing and she have a music career for some unknown reason and people are buying her album religiously. she is not rich though, she just get to find some connections who are influential tot he industry,
• Philippines
15 May 11
It's a parent's job to support her child's dreams but I guess what I would do is have an honest conversation about it with my child, explain the steps she needs to take to get to that dream and just assess the whole situation. Since I'm rich, I will make her take all the lessons she wants, hire the best people who could help her out and eventually talk some sense into her.:)
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• Calgary, Alberta
16 May 11
soI think despite of having training i wont produce album to a child, if they want to pursue music, i will let them pursue it as teen or adult. They can have training as kids but they will also get to enjoy being a child.
@hnaboro (113)
• Uganda
15 May 11
nothing on this earth cannot be learned, i would give the opportunity to learn then go ahead to support her in anything she would need in this career
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• Calgary, Alberta
17 May 11
If the child's voice didnt improve after few years, would you continue supporting their dream?
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
15 May 11
no. as a parent, i have the responsibility to tell the truth. i cannot allow my daughter to live in lies. i will be responsible for whatever happens next.
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• Calgary, Alberta
15 May 11
Even if its going to hurt you are not afraid to tell the child the truth?
• Philippines
15 May 11
I will ask my child to take lessons.I will support him/her in what s/he wants.but,if the teacher her/himself tells me that my kid doesn't have any talent whatsoever,then I will tell my child to find other lessons s/he may like.if s/he still wants to still sing, then I will let her/him continue the singing lessons,but I will not produce her/him an album.
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• Calgary, Alberta
15 May 11
For sure dreams should not be fulfilled by a snap, as they ay no pain, no gain and they need the pain of voice lessons and performance training to be a real star and it should be something they really want to do and if they don't want training then they should not have an album.
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
15 May 11
So many rich parents have brought disgrace to the world letting their tone-deaf kids turn into singers. If I was a parent by no means I would allow my tone-deaf kid to turn into a singer. I think it's good to be supportive with kids, but also you have to be realistic, and if they have no talent, to try to make them get an interest in something that can be easier for them to do.
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• Calgary, Alberta
15 May 11
There is already a company known as Ark music factory which is now making money out of the rich Parents with brats who wants to sing.I dont get the point of those kids trying to have singing careers without trying to have vocal training. maybe its because they were rich and in a hurry.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
15 May 11
That is what most parents would do, to give the best to their children. If I am a wealthy person, and I deeply understand that they can't sing at all, I might still spend money to make their dream come true. That's a parent's duty, I guess. Oh well, if their failure taught them a lesson, that might be worth the cost too.
• Calgary, Alberta
15 May 11
Failure is going to be traumatizing for a child but lesson can be learned out of delusion could make them learn about reality. i'm not sure though if its the right thing to do. But it something in consideration to wake kids from their delusion.
@masang (295)
• Philippines
15 May 11
In this modern days, there is no impossible if you have money. Get a private tutor for voice lesson and other performing arts. Enroll your child in many workshops related to your child's passion. There are a lot of artists who were out of tune when they sung before. But look at them now, they have developed and became great performers and singers. They have also their own concerts and albums. Secret? Constant right practice and workshops.
• Calgary, Alberta
15 May 11
I think trying to train and learn how to sing and perform is much better than trying to release an album with the help of voice editing, auto-tune and other technologies. practicing and training for sure really works, its going to take years but its much better than trying to be on the recording studio right away.
• Philippines
15 May 11
If I were rich, I would hire the best vocal coach in the world to train my child. LOL!
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• Calgary, Alberta
15 May 11
I just hope that the best vocal coach in the world is really that good. some of the vocal coaches are really grumpy.