do you agree with the saying: " sometimes words arent needed"? ^^

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Portugal
May 14, 2011 10:47am CST
hi guys how are you all?^^ im curious if you agree with the saying: " sometimes words arent needed". i agree with it bcs if you have a lover that always shows you through his actions that he loves you, that he doesnt need to say nothing else but kiss you^^ ahah for me actions value much more than words. a lot of people say that they love and will do everything but then in end do nothing. so its better to have someone that shows us his love and dont say the words than one that says and do nothing. dont you agree? share your opinions
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@shrijsr (574)
• Bangalore, India
14 May 11
Hello friend, Yeah, to some extent, yes i agree with you, actions show the person better than the words! But sometimes in life, there is a need for the words too to be spoken! You spoke about the lover, well, if the same lover never confessed to you and his actions are like he too is interested in you! Imagine yourself in such a state! don't you think it is confusing! Well, thats the state I'm currently living in! Its like almost equal to hell, having the person in front of you, whom you know that he loves you and the person has never confessed! OMG! life can sometimes show you hell!
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@shrijsr (574)
• Bangalore, India
15 May 11
Hmm, I know! There are chances of assumptions going the other way round! But, i'm just hoping that things are told at least once as words, so that I get to think about where I'm supposed to go from here! No ways i could ask about it! just because I kind of get this weird feelings rushing through me just by looking at him! Its a combination of fear, shy, liking and what and all and what not! Current passes all through my body! I start stumbling while speaking to him! Thanks for understanding!
@moirai (2836)
• Philippines
14 May 11
Ooh. I know what you mean... and it is difficult to assume in that situation because... what if you assume the wrong thing? Sometimes it helps if words are said so that things are clarified, you know where you stand, and from there you'll know where to go... I hope something happens (or some words are said =P ) for you soon, so you can move from that state you are in. (Would it also be possible for you to ask?) I wish you well! =)
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 May 11
hello cat, I agree,actually i just wrote one letter regarding how love needs expression. That love is not a possession,but needs expression without saying a single word. Love as a language of heart that doesn't need a single word to express. When your loved ones is sad,a hug is enough than saying a word. When your partner is angry because you've done something wrong...a kiss is more than enough compared than thousand words of explaining. No words come close enough to describe when we fall in love. have a great weekend my dear sister
@shrijsr (574)
• Bangalore, India
14 May 11
Well said jaiho! I liked your post! It explained everything about love and expression!
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 May 11
@shrijsr , Thanks for your appreciation... but your username made my tongue twists -hahaha can't pronounce it eh
@shrijsr (574)
• Bangalore, India
15 May 11
heh! not bad, u got a bit of a smile because of my username! My name is only shri and jsr is just spelled and it does not make any word!
• United States
15 May 11
Agreed.I rather have a guy who Shows me he loves than A guy who Says he loves me but never shows it. Luckily I have a guy who Shows me how much he loves me and says I love you too. Before him I thought I didn't need the words but... It feels so good to hear the words.
@anil02 (24688)
• India
15 May 11
Only we human can speak. But all other live entity also communicate with us. Your pet cannot speak but they can give message to you. so words are not must for saying some thing. Eyes are best means of communication.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
2 Jun 11
I agree. Actions are really far more better than words. Words don't actually mean anything for me if we don't practice it. I always tell my bf I love him since I can't show it to him because he is very far from me. But I always cry for not letting my love be seen physically. The words I love you are much said through actions that with purely words alone.
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
2 Jun 11
I agree. Words are not always needed. I show my girlfriend lots of affection and I know those actions speak louder than words. I still tell her that I lover her anyway. It's like with my children. There is an unspoken "I Love you" with them. I always hug and kiss my children and tell them that I love them. People need the feeling of being needed and wanted.
@dodo19 (47120)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
14 May 11
I do agree actually. I do think that there are just those moments when you really don't need to say anything. Sometimes, you don't need to say anything to know what your partner is thinking or feeling. In these moments, you just know.
• Philippines
15 May 11
sometimes,actions speak louder than words.some people have a lot of trouble expressing themselves in words.what they find difficulty in expressing in words,they express in actions.some guys cannot mutter the word "i love you".they just do things to make their girlfriends happy,like buy a gift or wash her car.
• Mexico
14 May 11
Hi sweet love forever: Definetly. I completely agree with you. And it's really beautiful when you see a couple that has developed such a deep relationship that words are not necessary because they understand how they feel and what they want. Just a look and you know how your partner is feeling and what he/she needs. Such abeautiful, romantic, intense feeling is precious. ALVARO
@ansi09 (151)
• Tunisia
14 May 11
Hello sweetloveforever, i suppose it's good for any woman to have a man of actions & deeds rather than a man of talks & empty promises. However, it's also good if man to flirt with his woman, because you woman, no offense enjoy that so much but you are denying that, LOL. It will be great for any woman to have a man of actions & flirty at the same time, but i suppose it's rare to find one like that, haha.
@moirai (2836)
• Philippines
14 May 11
Well, I suppose it is true... actions speak louder than words, as they say... but wouldn't it be nicer if, in addition to actions, they also say the words? =P It would be nice to hear... =)
@fedeborgo (104)
• Argentina
14 May 11
i agree with that sentence. For me an image worth 1000 words.
@oninomar (505)
• Philippines
14 May 11
Some people can't say the right word to express his/her love, that is why she/he show it in his actions. Actions speak loud that words.. But some people want also to hear from their partner the words that a person can tell.. Sometimes hearing that word is also important.. Just like saying I love you to your parents, it is really hard to do especially if you are a shy type of person and if you have no direct contacts with your parents.. But then, the very hard to do is to show it.. How can a person say I love you in actions?? Simply hug and kiss her? It is not just like showing affection to one another , it is also about caring to that person.. Just like holding her hand while crossing the streets, how nice right? Well, when a man holds the hand of a woman while crossing the street, he is showing to that woman that he really take good care of her, especially when the man is on the danger side while they are crossing.. That is one of the scene that shows a love without any words from his mouth.. That is only one of things that a man can do to a woman, but do woman can see it and feel it? A woman will always appreciate all the things that a man can do..
@wolfwise (100)
• Philippines
14 May 11
Sometimes yes, non-verbal actions say a lot of things especially facial expressions.