Let's talk about love..online love
@lipstick2009 (1236)
Philippines
May 15, 2011 10:27am CST
You may ask me, why would I spend time online looking for Mr.Right when I can have the chance of meeting him just around the corner.
I have lost my soul mate four years ago...and since then I have stayed inside my house not having the interest of socializing for I am a born loner and very private person.I can't just go out there when I have the chance and put a placard on my back saying.."Hey I am available..here's my contact number".
In social networks , I really don't desire to meet new friends with the hope of maybe he is Mr.Right.I just enjoy the friendship as long as it last, until someone comes along who I connect with, heart and soul.Someone who speaks my language so to speak, who has the same interests as I do.
The getting to know stage is easy and hard. For trust is hard to earn online.But it is possible for there will be someone who is willing as me to put down their defenses and just be transparent and real as he can be.
Not everybody gets lucky to find sincere online love.For people around you would still be skeptical of how its going to work with the distance as an issue and immmigration laws to follow.
But it is possible, if fate dictates it to be.
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4 responses
@chuyins123 (2112)
• Philippines
15 May 11
Ah yes, as the song goes. Love moves in mysterious ways...
In our generation, there are many success stories of LOVE life flourishing through the use of the internet technology.
But you are also right about skepticism and well doubts can't be helped. We have also heard ample stories of scams and all lot of tragedies because of internet strategies.
Informed as we are, we just have to be careful and use the right judgment on things online. I guess you are well aware and well informed so no need for an unsolicited advice.
It's great to hear that you have spent a part of your life here on mylot! See you around! God bless you! have a happy life!
chuyins
@gyani1978 (147)
• India
15 May 11
That's right chuyins,
Now a days mostly new generation are looking for their life partners in online only. Why that so I can't say that may be because they don't have time to meet personally, or someone are in north and another one are in south. I say personally meeting is better than online meeting for making love perfect & successful long life.
@ddaguno (3107)
• Philippines
16 May 11
i know some people who have met their lifetime partner through online dating. some dont like it and dont consider online dating serious but what the heck! it's not them who are dating and feeling the love so if you decide to go and try it out. we'll be here to support you. keep us updated will ya? 
@CRIVAS (1815)
• Canada
15 May 11
Personally I have faith in online love. My uncle got a divorced several years ago, and like you, he didn't want to leave his house, or go out and meet people. Instead he was looking to meet some new friends online, and he met the girl of his dreams. They had so much in common, it was like they were cut from the same cloth. They fell in love and have since gotten married. They have been very happy together and I think that it's amazing. I don't believe in meeting people in bars and clubs and whatnot, I have always felt that they only kind of people you meet there, are the wrong kind. You have to remember that you are trying to meet someone online for YOURSELF, not your friends and family. As long as you are happy that is all that should matter to them. You are the one that is looking for love, not them, and it is important that you do things YOUR way. I wish you all the luck. I hope that you do find Mr. Right. Happy mylotting.
@loveyjohnmark (31)
• Philippines
16 May 11
Oh my GOD. Well, in my own puntu de vista, love cannot be seen nor touch, it can only be felt in our heart.
Online love? well i believe in that just 20 %. Because what matters now for some women are money. But i'm not saying all women. Because most of women now are looking for online love to earn dollars. Am i right?
