virgin guys

Romania
May 19, 2011 5:15pm CST
guys tend to hide the fact that they are virgin because they are araid they might get judged by their friends so they start inventing all kind of lies. personally i think this is kinda silly
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9 responses
• Philippines
12 Jun 11
I totally agree with you man. When I was in high school, my friends always ask me if I'm still a virgin. Of course, I'd lie to hinder the truth. So what I did was just to go with their flow of discussion. Haha, it ain't easy especially if you really are still a virgin, but I managed. :D
@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
25 May 11
hi swissheart i know many people doing this and acting like this i do not know why they are afraid in telling the truth why they tell more lies rather than telling the truth i think virginity is not that big deal,especially if man you need to be proud because your wife or your girlfriend will be more proud to you.
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
21 May 11
Hi. swissheart. I agree with you. Guys should not feel ashamed to admit that they are a virgin. This is a personal preference and no one should not have to reveal this to anyone personally. When I met my husband he was a virgin. We were not married yet, so therefore, I became his first intimate female that he has ever made love to. I was surprised that he was a virgin because most men these days aren't. I do think that it is kind of silly that a guy is ashamed of admitting that he is an virgin. Most males egos drop down low when another male discovers that he is an virgin. It is just a male thing, I guess.
• India
23 May 11
I agree with your post.. but every one should get a partner like you to fulfill their needs. many don't get that. I feel pity for the people still think about the old society talks... When you get a chance just grab it & enjoy the pleasure.
@swats89 (1729)
• India
20 May 11
hey i'm proud to say i'm virgin and whatever people say it doesn't matter to me. Cheers
@mantis36 (4219)
• Philippines
20 May 11
why? this is not a shame if you tell to the public that you are still a virgin because you have no time to play like that and like this since playing like that is a waste of time..... since my time is in responding to myLot.... and playing like that is a waste of time hehehehe
• United States
20 May 11
Hi Swissheart! I suppose it has to do with reputations and not wanting to be teased. It is rather silly they make up lies just to boast of something they have absolutely no experience with. Maybe they should just not say anything at all. Because when the day comes that they do experience it for the first time, I suppose, what would it matter anyways to others if not to the person he is with, if they are or not and not sure it really matters then if the partner cares for him.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
20 May 11
hello, I think one must be proud on this like girls. right? but I am not aware of it. I thought it is alright if one guys is still a virgin. Ohh well, I think this is judge a guys talk. And I also never thought that guys also inventing some lies just to say that they are not virgin at all.
@ritzz07 (788)
• India
19 May 11
thats true and i agree with you....however sometimes they feel shy also....this is also a reason to hide the fact....however i m not virgin....guys think if they say that they are virgin their friends will make fun at them thats why they do hide the trurh.....however i think being virgin is a thing to be proud......