do you tend to avoid the places you used to visit together?
22 May 11
From the things I have heard from many of the people,they tend to avoid the places they had been together.Because its their memories that will haunt them for a long period.One of friends gave up driving his car beacuase of all that memories with gal in their car haunted him the most.It is better to avoid the things trhat gives us the pain.We need to move on and to get some peace of mind,we need to avoid certain things in life
20 May 11
No, I don't avoid places that I have memories of my ex because I do not want to deprive myself of visiting the places that I love. But I have this one particular restaurant that I have been avoiding for the past 6 years because my ex owns it :)
19 May 11
hi! if i would avoid each and every place i used to visit with my ex-bf then i would have to move to a new house in an unknown city. hehe memories of past relationships are not always bad... it is how we look at them. places associated with those memories are honestly... just places, where other people create memories too. every now and then, my family/friends and i would visit a restaurant i used to frequent with my ex-bf. i eat there because i remember the food being good and i quite enjoyed it in the past. my reason for going there won't be because of an ex. at the same time, avoiding it because of the ex, is like passing up an opportunity to enjoy a great meal with my family/friends. so no. i would not avoid any of those places, unless i did not have an enjoyable time there in the first place. hagd!