Hell..Bachelor Party??

India
May 23, 2011 7:42am CST
What do you think bachelor party should be done by the boys before the marriage or not. Isn't it a kink of fraud with your life partner or which is going to be your life partner. Do you support it or not.??
3 responses
@ptower76 (1616)
• United States
23 May 11
Bachelor parties are supposed to represent a milestone. The last party of a bachelor. If it is done responsibly as mentioned, it should not be a problem. As a man I personally did not want one. I partied enough when single. I told the best man to make a collection and give it to me instead of wasting it on a party. But to each his/her own. I would not mind if my fiance would have one. If I don't trust her then why marry her?
@ptower76 (1616)
• United States
24 May 11
As i mentioned, once I am committed, I don't want nor need to party with others unless my love is there with me. So for me, bachelor parties are out. But like I also said, I would not mind if she had one.
• India
24 May 11
I respect your feeling, but parties you did before is the time when you are not commited with someone. After commited with some one is it really ok. She could doubt because of this bachelor party.
• United States
23 May 11
I think that if bachelor parties are done responsibly I do not see a problem with them. Women have bachelorette parties as well and same would apply to them. I believe it is okay to have such parties as a way to celebrate amongst friends as single people, but not a free pass to do what they should not do.
• India
23 May 11
I am from India, and here only boys do bachelor party, that's why i written so in my discussion. You are absolutely right, if bachelor party done for only fun then its not wrong.
• United States
23 May 11
Sad to hear the girls do not get a party with her friends and family as a congratulatory party. Would be nice if they did.
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
23 May 11
There's also a bridal shower, so i don't see no reason in holding back my soon to be husband in enjoying his stag party as it would be his last night of being a bachelor. As a responsible groom, he would never do anything to destroy our wedding and trust in marriage should start from here. Trust is the basic foundation of every relationship and without it, i don't see any relationship grow into stability. So i should learn how to trust him in our marriage from this time onwards.
• India
24 May 11
You are right, trust is the basic thing, if you fully trust someone, and he also respect your trust , then i also dont feel any kind of prob, in bachelor party.