missing the girl I love
By fengweilun1
@fengweilun1 (16)
China
May 24, 2011 9:17am CST
I fell in love with one of my classmates when I am in high school,but she didn't know it.I've told her that in colleage,while we live far away.She said that's okay,it's my right to love her.
A few months ago,I called her .Then she told me she hsa already had a boyfriend.I felt sad,but I still laughed and said:"I should find someplace where there's nobody and cry,never meeting you again,humm?" "we can still be normal friend ,can we?"she replied."of course"I laughed again.
A few days later,I QQed her.The moment I called her ,She disappeared! "damn it!"I said to myself.It's she sho said we can be normal friends as usual,but it's she who refused to talk to me!I think I can't get her.
Maybe I should keep this love deep inside.when I miss her ,I can count the stars as if they are her eyes.
9 responses
@braveheart07 (2601)
• Philippines
25 May 11
That really hurts. I know what it feels to be set aside by the one we love. Unfortunately, we cannot do anything in this regard. The only thing we should do is to keep moving, look for another person whom we think is really deserving for us. You know it is hard to love a person when the person you love does not love you or does not feel the same thing as you feel.
I believe everything happens for a reason and we cannot please everybody to love us. If I were you, make yourself busy and try to forget her in your mind. If she still wants you to be her friend, then you should accept her with all your heart but leave everything as it is. Who knows one day, her mind will change, only GOD knows.
I truly believe that there will be a time that you will find your true love, the one that will truly, deeply love you. Just don't lose hope. Try to mingle with other people and socialize.
Happy mylotting!
@zhpshql (693)
• China
24 May 11
Hi,
oh,man I'm so sorry to hear that...You love her,then I don't think you two can just be friends...maybe what she did is the right thing that she should do..
the right thing for you to do is moving on,,get a relationship of your own..
it doesn't matter..you are brave and don't need to feel regretful....you told her,right?^^
@fengweilun1 (16)
• China
24 May 11
Thanks for your understanding.This love is over ,but life is still moving on,isn't it?
@ellebj (784)
• Philippines
25 May 11
i'm sorry to hear that.. this is very painful but the only thing you have to do is move on. There is nothing wrong with hat she did. She must for you not to be hurt even more. I think, what she just did is for your own good. If you still have communication and you are with her all the time, maybe you can't move on and continue to hope that you still have a chance. Move on, you will find the right girl for you.. the person that you will really love and can return that love.
@abmacasinag (518)
• Philippines
25 May 11
:( at least you had the courage to express your feelings for her. Sometimes girls are like that she will just tell you that you can still be friends even if it's she don't really mean it, sometimes they just have to say things like that because they don't want to offend or hurt other people by telling them right on their face that she don't want to be friends. Sorry If I'm a bit harsh here, I'm just stating a fact. Try to move on and forget about her. As they say there's a lot of fish in the ocean..;)
@balaji85in (459)
• India
25 May 11
You should accept the truth and you should travel in your way. I am not saying you to forget her.. Just control your emotions & have the past memories as sweet memories.. There is a person who already taken birth for you.. So please move on.. I think you are a nice natured person.. Definitely she will realize & feel for missing you in her life.. No one ask like that to be at least a friend for me..But you did asked her to be your friend, but she is supposed to refused you totally. You'll meet the person very soon who really loves you.
Have a nice day :)
@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
25 May 11
hi fengweilun,
Why you are stuck to a girl there are plenty of other girls out there???. When the girl has already told that she has a boyfriend then she means she doesnot want to be your friend try to understand it. But when you said can we be freinds then she repled yes due to courtesy as you cannot deny on one's face. She showed some maturity there but now you have been kidish and still following her she again showed maturity by running away from the scene. Its not her fault its you who is not accepting the truth.
@Arman09 (6)
• Philippines
24 May 11
Hey! There is no use running after a girl who already has a boyfriend not even with the hope of just making her as a good friend, if she really doesn't seem to have affection on you at all. Please forget her! She's not for you. There are so many girls out there who deserve your love or friendship.
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
24 May 11
She only told you that not to hurt your feelings more. You can be friends but knowing that you have something more than that for her might have taken her aback. And probably she doesn't want her boyfriend to know you're still communicating with each other because she can't just tell her boyfriend that you're just a friend. Even if she considers you as one, what you feel for her is still a hindrance and if she won't tell her boyfriend that you see her more than just a friend and later on he finds out, it might be the reason for not trusting her and it might break their relationship.
She's not totally turning her back on you but she's just keeping her distance. I hope you understand.
@783748 (178)
• Philippines
24 May 11
I guess you shouldn't let yourself get stuck in that situation. Instead of hoping forever for that girl, try searching for other girls. Maybe you're just not meant to be. You're only hurting yourself that way. If the girl is already happy with the other guy, then it's time you should make yourself happy as well.
