Are you advise giver of lovelife even if you've never been committed?
By Metatronik
@Metatronik (6199)
Pasay, Philippines
May 25, 2011 9:59am CST
Have you tried to give an advise about love life even if you have never felt the feeling of being in an relationship or never been committed into serious relationship?
Do you think you are credible enough to give the advises especially for those couples who are in trouble?
How come you were able to give advises to a lover that is broken hearted even if you haven't encountered relationship?
Did the lover or your friend listened to you and you think they were able to be enlightened from your advises that you have given to them? However they knew it to the fact that you are NGSB or NBSB?
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4 responses
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
30 Aug 11
I agree with that most likely it is better to ask advise from those who has experienced already. Though not at all it depends on a person. What if that person is a bitter as well then probably that person will give advise that you have to make revenge to a person you love before. There are times that you are not really hearing the advises but it is about their bitterness or frustrations already. Sometimes they will say in general that "guys are really headache" where in fact it was their choice to take that guy who is actually headache already in the first place.
@totallyundecided (3190)
• Philippines
26 May 11
Hmm... as a friend, I think it would fine by me to receive advice from someone who has not experienced having a boyfriend or girlfriend yet. Because even if I asked someone who's already relationship wise, their answers would always vary. And bottomline is that I would always be the one ending up making decisions. The advices I get from friends, relationship wise or no commitment yet, would just be the helpful ingredients in finalizing my choice. It would always be up to the person who's asking the advice. 
And besides your asking for your friend's help. Any friend being asked for advice would always be welcomed. 
And besides your asking for your friend's help. Any friend being asked for advice would always be welcomed. 1 person likes this
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
30 Aug 11
Good thing that is your perspective point of view that you would accept the advises from other people whether they have experienced it or not. I am only choosing a person whom I can talk regarding my problems whether it is about relationship or not. The one that is willing to listen and smart enough to say some advises. The truth is in my case I am so particular with the credibility of a person especially on how he/she delivers the message with sincerity from his/her heart that he/she is willing to help with your problems.
@latriciajones (846)
• United States
26 May 11
I think that just because you have never been in a relationship or in love before you still are capable of giving good advice. You can just give general advice on how you would do things if you were ever in a relationship. And honestly if someone comes to you and asks for your advice be it about a relationship or whatever then they have no right to say that your advice is not credible when they are the ones that came to you. If they werent going to take what you said into consideration then they shoudn't have asked you.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
30 Aug 11
I understand that a person does not have any right to say that the advise giver is not a credible whenever she ask for it. But there are times that a person is not really asking advise but she is just voicing out her problems. Though in other case basis I am giving advise to a married woman as well when in fact I am not yet married. Well I am just doing this in forums and not with my friends. For example whenever I read that a woman is being a battered wife already that she suffered much and she wants to continue her marriage for the sake of her child and the relationship won't ruin, I am giving an advise here as a woman that we should fight of what we believe is right and I am not exactly giving advise about marriage life since that thing I would totally admit that I am not credible to do that.
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
11 Jun 11
i can say that i never had a serious relation. i love a guy really much but we are very far. so we didnt have a near relationship. but even i didnt have a near relation that doesnt mean that i cant advise about love. i know that i love that guy. so i always give advises to whomever i see that is needing it^^ its ok im not a pro but i know what it is to love someone and how hurt we get. i like to advise people about love a lot^^ actually i wish i had a job like a love adviser^^ a lot of people needs to talk about their love lives and sometimes dont know how to.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
31 Aug 11
If that is about LOVE itself then it does not really matter because I believe you can still share your experiences to others of what is the feeling of being in love then there will come a point that sometimes you can also share it with them on how you have been hurt when you fell in love.
