Have you ever thought of tired for being good or nice?

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Have you ever thought that you are already tired of being humble, generous, patient and other good traits that you have given to other people? When it is about too much you really tend not to be humble anymore because it won't do any good to you but people are just keeping their pride to the highest level to the extent that you are being offended? In my own experience I have to admit the fact of tired for being good or nice because some people are abusing it to the extent that they are testing your patience. Sometimes I have this feeling that it doesn't change the fact when you are humble to a person while they are putting you down or keeping their pride. Just like the two friends of my boyfriend they were so overwhelmed to the highest level to the extent that they have a feeling of floating on air when I have projected my humility towards them or even stoop down to their level. I told my boyfriend that I am just regretting of what I have done to his friends and that is too much. But my boyfriend told me that he is proud of me for being level headed that he can describe me as matured woman with sense for what I did. He admitted it to me that unlike his two friends they are really immature and non sense at all because they still want to remain in lowest level as possible. Otherwise they really lack manliness. The other man who is now married is actually flirting with his officemate by the time that his wife was still pregnant to their youngest child. Another example here was that I am having regrets that I became too much humble to my former boss to the extent that I asked for his forgiveness but then he just nagged me like hell. Now I won't tolerate it and I need to fight what is really right.