Love at any cost?

United States
May 26, 2011 8:35pm CST
when it comes to love do you think that you should pursue it at all costs necessary? I have a friend who has recently started dating her ex boyfriend (whom she has kids by)brother. And now they are about to have 2 kids of their own and they are getting married. What do you think? Is dating the brother of your ex ok if you two are in love or is it considered out of bounds?
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larish
@larish (2191)
• Philippines
27 May 11
I think your friend should follow her heart's desire. She just have to be prepared for the consequences of her decision.
latriciajones
@latriciajones (846)
• United States
27 May 11
Exactly and that what I told her. I told her to just be prepared for all the ridicule from the two brothers family. And she did have to endure alot of name calling and none of them are talking to her right now. They even took her off of their friends list on FB as soon as they found out. I just dont want the kids to grow up confused as to how their uncle is also their stepdad. You know?
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stary1
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
27 May 11
Wow this could get complicated. I think it depends a lot on how the ex-boyfriend feels. If he can accept it then perhaps it can all work out. It really would be good for the kids as their uncle and father would be around. I wish them all the best!!!
latriciajones
@latriciajones (846)
• United States
27 May 11
Honestly neither the ex boyfriend nor his family is accepting of this situation. Seeing as though she will have two kids by each of the brothers.