Marital problems...

Philippines
May 27, 2011 5:24am CST
Do you have any idea on how to avoid or at least lessen causes of marital problem?
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7 responses
@angelo315 (232)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
In my own experience, keeping the lines of communication continually open really help to lessen marital problem. Communication in marriage consists of three components: talking, listening and understanding. No marriage can grow or develop unless partners take time to talk to each other. An invaluable device in building good communication techniques, particularly when you are discussing a relationship problem, is to practice listening to your partner without interrupting. We should try to understand not just what our partner is saying about but why he/ she is saying it. :)
• Kenya
20 Jun 11
I concur with you you have to keep communications open. Even those things that would otherwise appear irrelevant, in marriage they are crucial. Talk it out and talk until you have a way out. Find time to be with your partner and chat sometimes about anything and everything. This will build the marriage.
• United States
27 Apr 12
Communication....communication......communication........... This is a MUST ifor avhappy marriage. Do not let it dwindle, because eventually it will be gone.
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
8 Jun 11
People are unique. Each has their own preferences. It is really a challenge for two unique individuals to come together in marriage. Usually the differences causes the conflict in the relationship. So what couples can do in this situation is to come together, talk and compromise. Communication is vital in any relationship. It doesn't mean that you only talk but as important as talking, listening to your partner's sentiments is important too. Your partner should know what is bothering you because your partner is not a mind reader. I think there is no problem that cannot be solved without sitting down and talking about it.
• Philippines
9 Jun 11
You're right. I like your comment. Thanks.
@dodo19 (47117)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
1 Jun 11
Family problems are bound to happen in every family. I don't think that it's possible to avoid nothing happen and have no problems. I think that we just need to try and find ways to overcome the problems we're facing. We're all different, and not every method will work for every couple. So long as each couples tries to talk things out, or find a method to resolve the issue, then that's the key.
@allknowing (130130)
• India
11 Jul 11
Marriage is based on trust and understanding, giving space to each other and most important of all handling money matters with kid gloves.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
11 Jul 11
Communication today is very important and in a relationship, a couple. Patience and the desire to understand why we partner with our need to dominate person. Not having the necessary patience you may not really understand the problems that are serious but not necessarily require understanding. Once the message we want to convey it is understood and received as we wanted we are sure that there is little chance that the problem is not solved. When talking to a person not discuss the two as they say, but is discussed in four other persons present at the discussion of the two people are subconscious. Miracles are the right words: eliminate stress and depression and are keys that open up and let us feelings and emotions go out and also offer a part of us, the true and unique. Work brings us true happiness if ete lived. Doing this language learn to release psychological states, we feel lighter with us and others. Communication is a joy and makes us happy when spontaneous when born within us and we express ourselves.
• India
27 May 11
your are both so busy with wokr,the kids,and your interests that you can go for days without having real conversation...........?that is strictly for sleepind tanx..when you leiminate qulaity from your marriage ,your risk getting too casual about your relationship or worse.Assuming that you don't need to work on it anymore..Too much of this for too long and you could wake up one day and not even remember why you married each other.
• Philippines
27 May 11
That's the worst scenario when you did give enough time with your marrige life and also kids will suffer. Thank you for your time.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
28 May 11
To reduce family problems simply can not happen. Every family has problems of a different type.Some even make a small household items.I think a little more confidence also share an understanding and communication would lead to less conflict. Have a nice day!