I'm surrounded with heartbroken people.
By nelerkz
@nelerkz (467)
Philippines
8 responses
@ptower76 (1616)
• United States
30 May 11
Sometimes the best comfort we can give is simply to listen to others or just provide a shoulder to cry on. It would be nice if we can solve the problems of all our loved ones. But the fact is that we will never be able to solve all the problems in the world so taking one at a time providing comfort to each will help us to do our part.
@ptower76 (1616)
• United States
30 May 11
Many of us have that desire within to make a difference. To nurture those things we hold dear and we sometimes become depressed or discouraged when the problems in the world seem to overwhelm us. We should remember that we are simply humans beings with limitations and do what we can.
@skyt06042405 (3)
• Malaysia
30 May 11
sometimes is good to cry..it helps us ease our hearts..its better than keeping it all inside n nt telling it out to anyone...so let them cry if they fell like it...jz be there 4 them n support them through their hardship..this will make them stronger n they'd have courage to face their problems better... ^.^ gd luck...
@skyt06042405 (3)
• Malaysia
31 May 11
my pleasure ^.^ ur very much welcomed...glad to hear tht... ^^ gd luck dear~
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
30 May 11
I'm thinkig the reason you are sad is because you are a kind person. Be happy they feel comfortable to talk to you. Just think how much worse it could be for them not to have anyone to speak with.
Sometimes just listenong is enough and if they cry, that's ok too. You are blessed to be the one others feel comfortable talking to in times of trouble :) Make sure you take care of yourself too :)
@nelerkz (467)
• Philippines
31 May 11
Thank you stary1, you are a good observer, Yes I am a quite kind person. :) And I can feel that they are comfortable with me to confess everything what happened. All I can do is to get listen and advice in a way that cannot give negative thoughts on them and destroy more the situation. I am very happy that they have the trust and faith on me. Thank you for your admonition. It is highly appreciated. As well as yours, take good care of yourself and God bless. :)
@Burningice (35)
• Philippines
31 May 11
Crying is a good outlet for impounded emotions so you don't have to worry about them. What you should worry about is if they don't cry out their misery because that will lead them to insanity and a great deal of cardio-vascular ailment... Rejoice in the fact that you're able to alleviate their pain in your own little way.
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
11 Nov 12
hahaha.... at least you are learning from their experiences.... Broken heartedness is part of life. Every thing happens for a reason..gossssssh... Easy to say but in the midst of crisis.... reasons are questioned? but at the end of the crisis if you have surpassed this... again you will smile at it and say.. "yes, every thing happens for a reason"...
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
30 May 11
Hi nelerkz! Welcome here!
Oh just let them cry friend. Sometimes crying makes ourselves feel light about our problems. Give them enough time to breath. In time they will realize that they have to move on.
As a friend,you should always talk to them,tell them our Lord will not give them such problems if they can't handle it. Infact,this will make them strong. Pray for their happiness.
See yah!
Oh just let them cry friend. Sometimes crying makes ourselves feel light about our problems. Give them enough time to breath. In time they will realize that they have to move on.
As a friend,you should always talk to them,tell them our Lord will not give them such problems if they can't handle it. Infact,this will make them strong. Pray for their happiness.
See yah! @sanijas83 (270)
• Latvia
30 May 11
Last week I got a call from my acquaintance. She was not satisfied with her job because of the attitude from the management of the company. She told it was not a phone conversation, but she felt depressed. She tried to hold her tears. Sometimes it is not easy to find a solution how to feel alright if all the noise and all the trouble seem to destroy.
